If Love Requires Work, It Wasn’t Meant To Be

Kyle Benson challenges this common saying and shows how it hinders rather than helps relationships.

Five Wrong Assumptions About Dating a Woman Who was Betrayed

Don’t make the mistake of thinking you know her baggage or what she’s looking for.

The Words Don’t Always Define the Man

Are you too quick to make assumptions?

When a Man Sees Himself Through the Eyes of Others, it’s Astonishing

One man, six photographers, and six completely different visions.

Climbing the Ladder of Inference with Andrea Bocelli

Andrea Bocelli as an example of understanding assumptions and suspending judgement to improve leadership and overall workplace effectiveness.

4 Brutal Truths You MUST Teach Your Son About Love

You are his best chance for true love.

Get Your Assumptions Off My Kid

Just because Amelia’s son is gay, it doesn’t mean he’s gender non-conforming.

Running Up That Hill: Grappling With My Own Racial Bias

Gary Almeter hears a song being whistled, and his reaction forces him to confront assumptions about others…and himself.

The Price of a Salute Among Leaders of Men

What have you done, today, to earn the loyalty of those who follow you?

Why Is Long Hair Still Not Acceptable In Business?

Andrew Carlson wonders why so many people in the business world still make negative assumptions about long-haired men.

So Long Sophomore Slump

Sophomore year isn’t about surviving, it’s about thriving.

Stivers Cartoons: Rash Assumptions in the Butcher Shop

©Mark Stivers / www.stiverscartoons.com

Tell It to Me “Straight”

Mitch Helix wonders why “feminine” behaviors seem to make people think a man is gay.

How Kids React To My Pretty Princess Nails

Adults filter their reactions to a man with a manicure, but seeing how kids respond is a lot more informative.

Single Men Want Love Too

Forget the stereotypes; men are looking for love.

Convicting Insights Of An Unfamiliar Place

On India, mindfulness and the danger of becoming desensitized to poverty.