Atalwin Pilon wonders about the tradeoffs of honesty and likeability.
The universe gave Atalwin Pilon a single chance to meet someone he was wildly attracted to. And he choked.
Being preoccupied with the steps you wish you were taking causes us to miss the beauty and importance of the small ones we can make.
“There are too many interesting women I did not have the experience to know in this life because I have been brain washed.”
Atalwin Pilon remembers seeing his father just three times in his life. And yet, his dad was an integral part of Atalwin’s journey for inner peace and balance.
Atalwin Pilon had to go through a rise, a fall and an awakening to discover these ways of developing an inner life. He wishes someone had told him sooner.
We don’t aim for greatness and making a difference because we are too busy acting out our conditioning. Why not aim for more?
The set-up of the workshop allows you to have a profound and potentially life transforming experience.
A unique full day experience facilitated by The Good Men Project’s long-time writer Atalwin Pilon that will address issues raised in his controversial posts on so-called Psycho Bitches From Hell.
The Good Men Project & Basic Goodness Present: Good Men Keep Their Back Straight (And Their Heart Open) A Workshop For Men (and a Workshop for Women, also)
“Here’s a shocker. I love my wife enormously. I worry about her daily. My love for her as a whole human being is greater than my sexual needs.”
Where would we be without social media?
Shawn Henfling was tired of pointing a finger at the problem. He decided to become part of the solution.
Terry Lancaster runs. He runs every single day. And it’s about proving something.
The importance of safety and support for gender non-conforming children cannot be over-stated.
Comedian Pam Gaslow, a.k.a. Depressed Hot Girl, explains how a meaningful relationship based on the passion of a one-night stand with “Big Hands” really wasn’t that meaningful in the first place.
Ty Phillips has a list, but it doesn’t have numbers.
As our world globalizes, clashes, and reinvents itself, we have the opportunity to guide the way that boys become men. It may mean the difference between continued prosperity or a trip back to the Dark Ages.
Watch what happens when the skeletons step out from behind the screen.
Doyin Richards explains why the struggle is real in a lot of areas other than fatherhood.
Choosing to view my ex-wife in a positive light for my own happiness.
You are changing the world, just by existing. You are worthy of everything you’ve ever wanted. And it’s a heck of a lot easier to figure that out now than to spend your life striving after the illusions.
Who is the boy inside the man holding the gun?
It’s missing the elements that made the first film so unique.
Poetry Editor Charlie Bondhus comments on erotic poetry, queer sex, and a high school controversy involving both of the above.
Carrie Cariello, whose boy Jack has autism, has answers … to the questions every parent with a child like hers asks.
There is no one kind of man. There is no one kind of trans-man. And every story matters.
“I find it paradoxical that we live in a society where love of difference makes one the same, while love of sameness makes one different.”
Veteran Airman Nicholas Miele skillfully juxtaposes a personal rite of passage with a personal loss.
Watch 5 years in the life on one young transguy, as his voice and pictures tell the story of how he’s grown not just as a man, but as a person.
My son got a sports locker. And his room and I thank him for it.