Atalwin Pilon wonders about the tradeoffs of honesty and likeability.
The universe gave Atalwin Pilon a single chance to meet someone he was wildly attracted to. And he choked.
Being preoccupied with the steps you wish you were taking causes us to miss the beauty and importance of the small ones we can make.
“There are too many interesting women I did not have the experience to know in this life because I have been brain washed.”
Atalwin Pilon remembers seeing his father just three times in his life. And yet, his dad was an integral part of Atalwin’s journey for inner peace and balance.
Atalwin Pilon had to go through a rise, a fall and an awakening to discover these ways of developing an inner life. He wishes someone had told him sooner.
We don’t aim for greatness and making a difference because we are too busy acting out our conditioning. Why not aim for more?
The set-up of the workshop allows you to have a profound and potentially life transforming experience.
A unique full day experience facilitated by The Good Men Project’s long-time writer Atalwin Pilon that will address issues raised in his controversial posts on so-called Psycho Bitches From Hell.
The Good Men Project & Basic Goodness Present: Good Men Keep Their Back Straight (And Their Heart Open) A Workshop For Men (and a Workshop for Women, also)
“Here’s a shocker. I love my wife enormously. I worry about her daily. My love for her as a whole human being is greater than my sexual needs.”
Troy Palmer thinks the Beastie Boys were right to fight for their song, but they got so much more wrong.
Five simple guidelines from Eido T. Shimano Roshi.
Jarune Uwujaren explains that by claiming to not see race, you’re actually dismissing the experiences of people who face racism every day.
JJ Vincent is convinced that this could have been the boldest ad of the year…or ever. What do you think?
Kristine Rose thinks you should tell all your dirty secrets to your new partner.
Jaime Zepeda finds a way to seriously enjoy life, by not taking himself too seriously.
Suppose that there was no scoreboard.
Pistanthrophobia is something that you bring on every date you go on after a bad break-up. It prevents you from being able to love fully. Danny Baker explains some simple ways you can get past it.
Slade Grayson asks, “What’s the one childhood toy that you really wanted, but didn’t get?”
After he lost his brother, Jarad Dewing tried everything to release the pain locked inside of him.
Despite growing up as young black male in the “hood,” facing all the same challenges—like violence and poverty—my voice, moreover the way I talked, somehow made me less black than others.
Renowned prison reform activist Ken Hartman gives his insights into how we can reform our broken system.
Prison rape isn’t funnier than any other kind of rape. And men are not unstoppable rape machines. It’s time we stopped laughing.
“We all feel angry. We don’t all choose to abuse because we’re angry.”
Jeremy Meyers thinks it’s time for men to decide who they are, not let society decide for them.
Conventional beauty doesn’t mean crap. Jackson Bliss explores the importance of “idiosyncratic beauty” and its relationship to love
Andrew Smiler offers three suggestions on how to leave the gray zone of sexual consent.