Outside of the Fantasy — Authenticity is Hot, Bad to the Bone is Not

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Women will forgive you for not being as “bad boy sexy” as fantasy characters. They will reject you for not being yourself.

Embracing Your Inner Bad Boy…Mindfully

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Have you ever wished you could attract women like bad boys do, but without actually having to become a bad boy?

Here’s the Real Reason Women are Attracted to A**holes.

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Forget the stereotype—healthy women don’t really want to be with jerks. But there are some traits that are actually the healthy side of bad boy behavior.

“Do nice guys really finish last or is it simply a myth?”

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Why Don’t Women Like Nice Guys?

Why Women Always Friend Zone You

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Marzena Bielecka has some ideas about how to keep from getting “Friend Zoned”…over and over.

Let’s Stop Faulting Boys and Start Channeling Their Energy

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Boys can learn, and we should teach, that it is not reckless abandon that makes a man but steady self-control.

Yes, Some Women Only Go For A**holes

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Ever just wished feminists would admit that some women DO only like “bad boys”? Melissa Fabello not only admits it, she explores why this phenomenon exists.

Nice Guys Again

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Nice Guys, this time with CURTAINS.

L’Homme Fatal, or ‘Just Not That Into You’?

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Kaleb Blake reacts to an article that paints men as devious lotharios, and wonders if blaming men is a way to shrug responsibility for one’s own dating behavior.

“Just like a man that will walk all over a woman once he knows he can get away with it, women have the capacity to do the same.”

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This is a comment by Danny on the Comment of the Day: “The problem nice guys have is they put women on pedestals and themselves in a pit.”

“The problem nice guys have is they put women on pedestals and themselves in a pit.”

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This is a comment by Jay on the post “Can A ‘Nice Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?”

Can a ‘Nice Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?

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A man asks Eli and Josie how to win the attentions of a woman whose other crush is a “bad boy”.

Why Don’t Women Like Nice Guys?

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A self-proclaimed “nice guy” wonders why women seem to get bored of drama-free love and start looking for trouble.

Fathers, Sons, and Sports Fandom

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Jacob Tucker’s father did more than just teach him how to be a good fan–he also showed him how to be a good man. Here’s his story.

Why the Nice Guy Deserves a Chance

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She Said He Said try to uncover what it is about nice guys that makes most women so hesitant.

T2TB Week: A Cavs Fan’s Love for Laimbeer

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How a Bad Boy earned the support of a Cavs fan in the 1988 Finals.