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Update to the State of the State thingie; Or, Rex grossman is a pussy

I walked out of the bar and there is a minivan with a daycare ad and phone number #classy So, yesterday I probably depressed the shit out of you with the story of what’s going on in my life. I sincerely apologize, but I had to get that out. Kind of like the [...]

Guestpost #54: thenakedlistener – Ten things I've learned from clubbing in Hong Kong

I stumbled on The Naked Listener’s blog recently, and it’s great: http://thenakedlistener.wordpress.com This is The Naked Listener’s bio. Note: I USE THE WORD ’clubbing’ as in clubbing + the act of going to gigs + a night out. It isn’t right, but then again, most things aren’t in this town. Clubbing in Hong Kong is way, way more [...]

The Ashtray

I wasn’t gagging when you kissed me… It was November of 2009. I’d been in Buffalo for a couple months and I was giving the online dating thing another shot. I met The Ashtray online and we decided to meet for dinner at some dive she knew, over in the shitty part of [...]

Ten things I've learned from going to a strip club

You can make good money as a dancer. Unfortunately, cocaine is pretty expensive. Strippers are from different places across America and around the world. You can tell because of their exceptionally strong accents and stereotypical behaviour. It’s almost as if they are catering to geographical or racial fetishes… “Lap dance” is a city-dependent term. There [...]

My first date in Canada

Do you have some American in you? When I moved to the Toronto suburbs in January of 2009 I had some very high hopes for myself as far as dating goes. I figured that I was gonna roll into town and every woman was going to want a piece of the bald American. I was [...]