New Sex Research Maps the Explosion of Erotic Kinks Emerging in 21st Century Sexuality

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Innovative survey helps people clarify their core sexual themes and avoid erotic mismatches in relationships.

Male Sexuality And How Shame Hurts Everyone

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Arden Leigh thinks we all need to release some of the shame we put on ourselves and on others.

What To Do With Your Nice Guy When She Begs For Your Bad Boy

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How one nice guy responded to his partner’s request for dominating, rough, kinky sex?

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In a poem that some will find creepy and others will find darkly funny, Ann Clark reminds us that the people we love often hide secrets.

How One Couple Saved Their Relationship Exploring Conscious D/s-BDSM (NSFW!)

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A woman daringly explores the depths of her submissive sexual kink. Her reluctant “nice guy” fiancé slowly warms to his own dominate counterpart.

Anticipation of the Knife

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Masculinity is often tied to pain management. Here, Michael Walsh ponders whether one kind of pain can be used to manage another.

Anatomy of a Personal Erotic Myth – Feminine View

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A woman braves her fears about her sexual desires to embrace her lifelong fetish sexual yearnings and save her relationship

Fifty Shades 2.0 – Time to Upgrade Your Kink Sexuality Knowledge Base

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Fetish Sex Expert Galen Fous offers 4 critical guidelines to know before you explore erotic dominance and submission.

Beyond Friction Sex Part 2: How to Journey to the Deepest Realms of Eros

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Sex expert Galen Fous lays out the the steps to mutual sexual ecstasy.

Coming Out: My Loss and My Gain

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Coming out redirects your life for the better by cutting out those that have no place in your story and by bringing those that truly love you closer to you.

Submissive Men Circa 1988: An Excerpt From the Memoirs of Janet Hardy

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Kink pioneer Janet Hardy recalls some of the men she met when she first started exploring BDSM. The following is an excerpt from Janet Hardy’s upcoming memoir, currently titled “Impervious: Chronicles of a Retired Deviant”. In this excerpt, she recalls the early days of finding dates through coded personal ads. The personal ads suddenly became […]

The Strength of Submission

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At first, John Edale worried about sharing this private aspect of his life in a blog, but has found that coming out as submissive has unexpected benefits.

21 Step Guide to the Art of Masculine Domination

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Skillful dominance requires confidence and sensitivity. Are you bringing it, every step of the way?

Just Doing My Job

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Justin Cascio’s life has been changed by the writers who reveal their own lives—and the taboos of our society.

How BDSM Helped a Rape Survivor Recover

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Author Jane Devin overcame fear to embrace an unlikely ally

Is BDSM Just a Phase?

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A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.