How I Stopped Hating Her for Dumping Me

Author Jay Cradeur shares 5 steps for transforming heartache and anger to love and compassion. It starts with saying three words you don’t want to hear.

A Dad of a Daughter Sounds Off: We Need to Ditch the Term “Diva”

When a stranger calls his daughter a “diva” this dad started to fume. He decided to speak out. Here is why he wants us to get rid of the term for good.

How Do You Deal With a Guy Wearing a Vulgar Shirt?

Is anything inappropriate to wear to class anymore?

The Atlantic Reports On The Decline Of Maxim

Who’s stealing Maxim’s audience? According to the Atlantic, we are.

The Proper Use of Profanity

A basic guide to the correct use of English profanity.

Seeking a Male Anthem

Andrew Smiler wonders why there has never been a true “male anthem” in popular music.

On Equal Opportunity Name Calling

Lisa Hickey wonders why we seem to have a problem with people who are clear, direct and assertive.

Monday rewind

“Any guy named Pee Wee who walks out to Boy George has got to be a pussy.  I’m taking the other guy.”   It was a long weekend in Williamsville, New York.  I don’t mean that we had a school holiday that made it a three-day weekend, I mean that there was a ton of […]

Crying Like A Bitch

…and there’s no denying, you were crying like a bitch. Godsmack I know it’s Tuesday and this is a Music Monday type of post, but the temperature’s been below freezing and it’s slowed the ideas in my brain. My apologies. When I do a Music Monday post I tell you what a song means to […]

The reunion

He came back a few minutes later to see if we wanted drinks and D.Q. said, “Yeah.  I want an Oreo milkshake, bitch”. It was a little more than a month ago that I dropped my mom and Drama Queen (D.Q.) off at Buffalo Niagara International Airport for a flight to California.  My mom had […]

Random Thoughts

Stuff that pops into my mind and keeps me from falling asleep… A couple years ago I got pulled over by the po po.  Dude comes up to my window and asks, “Do you know why I pulled you over?”  I responded with, “Because I thought it was yellow and you thought it was red?”  […]

Breaking up: “How To” & “How Not To”

I was rocking the argyle and in the 1980’s that may have been enough to push me over the top. The Actress was my first girlfriend and my first breakup.  And my second breakup.  And possibly my third breakup.  I don’t remember for sure if we broke up two times or three times.  I was […]