Dear Women Who Shame Women for Rape

Want more good men in the world? Help foster their development.

My Quiet Plea: Why Should I Apologize for ISIS?

How far will violence go before someone takes responsibility? Zeynab Ladak reflects on when she distanced herself from the blanket of generalization and violence of her culture.

The Shame Game: Living in an Abuser’s Shadow

When men abuse women, the victim’s stories often stay hidden until they’re ready to be told. As Devorah Goldstein shares a story of hope, she spreads a message of healing.

When You Need to Blame Someone, Blame Gravity

Think about the Garden of Eden story. You know how it goes: Adam blames Eve. Eve blames the serpent. God blames all three.

How Your Favorite Weapon Disarms You

There is one defense that feels good in the moment, but is actually robbing you of your personal power.

The Suicide Note I Never Left

Have you ever had suicidal thoughts? Would your note have been different?

7 Keys to an Apology to Help Her Forgive You

Tor Constantino shares a personal screw-up that nearly cost him the love of his life—if not for a genuine apology that saved it.

Of Absent Fathers and the Culture That Allows That Choice

Dave Taylor celebrates the great dads he sees in our society, but painfully recognizes there are far too many absent fathers. He examines why that is, and finds a culture in need of an over-haul.

4 Ways You’re Ruining Your Own Happiness By Playing the Blame Game

“Blame” is the drug-of-choice for too many couples.

Ex-NFL Player Talks Brain Trauma, Greed and Blame: Part 2

In Part 2 of this interview, former 49’ers defensive tackle, George Visger, says he lost everything due to NFL-induced head trauma and offers common sense rule changes to protect NFL players going forward.

Ex-NFL Player Talks Brain Trauma, Greed and Blame: Part 1

Former 49’ers defensive tackle, George Visger, talks about his hundreds of concussions, 9 emergency brain surgeries and “NFL bullsh*t”

Releasing Shame and Exploding Male Stoicism

How to allow yourself room to forgive.

Couples And Parents: Put A Stop To Blame And Shame

Relationships get better when we overcome the urge to criticize.

How to Stop Triggering Defensiveness in Your Partner

You don’t understand! You’re not listening! John Gray explains how blame statements shut down communication and shows how to express frustration constructively.

The Blame Game: Scoring Points by Pointing Fingers

A conversation between Brian Rutter and a dad at a their kids softball game makes him wonder: Why all the judgment at a Saturday game?

The Shame of Our Lives

The truth can set us free from shame.