Against the Current, With the Stream

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When it comes to getting high, John Paschal chooses to stand alone.

“When my son was born I felt duty, responsibility and warmth, but I didn’t feel that passionate sense of lifelong love.”

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When did you first bond with your child? Elise said that while that true love for her son eventually came to her, it wasn’t immediate. This can heap shame and guilt onto new parents and leave them feeling even more alone.

Fatherhood Does Not Have to Wait Until a Child Is Born

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Aaron Brinker read to and talked to his son before birth, creating a bond that benefitted them both.

I’m An Asshole Dad

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Mattias: “Dad, I forgive you.”
Me: “But I didn’t do anything wrong.”
Mattias: “That’s okay. I forgive you anyway.”
-Mattias, 5 years, 1 month

“There are intangibles to playing sports: self-discipline, overcoming hardship, facing fear, camaraderie.”

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This is a comment by Rick on the post “Real Men Don’t Watch Sports”. While sports sometimes have a tendency to seem violent and bring out hostile “manly” attitudes, someone who has lived through them has a different perspective.

Hot Sex, Heart Sex, and the Best Sex: 5 Secrets for Having It All

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Hot sex is how you got here in the first place. Heart sex is how to stay together.

“I completely missed how hard my father tried to bond with me, and how I pushed him away.”

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This is a comment by Brendan on the post “14 Ways to Demonstrate ‘I Love You” to Your Son”.

Strangers on a Train

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William Lucas Walker talks about how four strangers on a train are changing grandparenting.

This is What Real Fatherhood Looks Like

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Tender, surprising, and brimming with love: these are images of real fatherhood.

A Dad Strikes Out

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Bestselling author Michael Levin talks about his realization that his sons will never speak the language of baseball the way he does, and that’s okay.

BMOTD: My Daughter Becomes My FB Friend, Almost

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My teenaged daughter made my day by letting me inside her cyber world, if only for an instant.

The Jockstrap: A Rite of Passage

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A father-son bonding moment over sporting goods? Why not?

Study: Bumpy Boners Blotted Out by Evolution

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When we developed into a monogamous species, we became spineless—literally.