“We live in a world that’s one big raw nerve, one knee-jerk waiting to happen.”

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This is a comment by JM on the post “The Suicide of Kate Middleton’s Nurse – Should We Bully the Bullies?

“Society won’t let me have the sex I want, but Johnnie Walker will.”

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This is a comment by Alyssa Royse on the post “Nice Guys Commit Rape Too”.

Pisser

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My not-so-secret glee of violating urinal etiquette.

My Husband Live-Chats with Porn Girls

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Watching porn is one thing. Live -chatting with sex workers is another.

“Moving away from what isn’t working is just another way of creating the best sex possible.”

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This is a comment by Joanna Schroeder on the post “10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Porn”.

Bisexual, Pansexual, Born or Made?

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A survivor of childhood sexual abuse knows bisexuality is real, but wonders if he was born this way or made.

“Your sexual activity does not make you a man. Things like compassion, honor, and honesty do.”

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Æther talks about how to start having the kind of sex you want while attracting the kind of partners you want.

“‘The friend zone’ implies that your relationship with someone is only valuable if it involves sex.”

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This is a comment by Salvice on the post “The Ups and Downs of ‘The Friend Zone’”.

“How do you get respect? You give it.”

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This is a comment by sweetsue on the post “Is Technology Dominated by Cavemen?”

Respecting My Daughter’s Growing Body

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The ways that Ahmed Youssef plays with his daughter are changing as she grows up, and he wonders whether this is really such a good thing.

How Not To Hit On People

This is my biggest piece of advice, and it ought to be really reassuring to a lot of awkward people. If you genuinely are kind and mean well and are interested in other people, most people can tell.

What I Mean When I Talk About Rape Culture

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Just what is rape culture? Ozy Frantz goes into detail about the cultural wellsprings from which it arises.

Out of the Comfort Zone: Teaching Kids Body Safety

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Jayneen Sanders talks about how to teach your kids to protect themselves against sexual abuse.

I’m Still In Love With My Ex, Should I Tell Her?

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A man still has feelings for his ex, and he wonders if he should reach out and try to rekindle things.

The 40-Year-Old Teenager

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Joel Schwartzberg offers this advice to newly-divorced men: Don’t even think
about going “home.”

Good Consent

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Is there an all-encompassing ethic of sexual consent? Ozy Frantz lays down some ground rules.