Learning to Foxtrot

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In this touching, relatable poem, Jessica Server offers some sympathy to those boys whose “deep phobia of dancing” keeps them from getting close to the women they pine after.

How to Pull a Tooth With a Rocket (Or, What Dads Do When Mom Is Not Home)

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Hugh Paxton suggests you don’t try this at home.

it gets better, by halves

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A creative and disturbing piece from Sean Patrick Mulroy on childhood, neglect, and silence.

Boys Do Cry, Look at Little Jackson

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Meet Jackson, the little music fan who knows that sadness can be goodness.

If I Were a Parent of a Boy…

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Michael Gurian believes we are in denial about boys and men—and what is needed is systematic changes to meet the needs of both genders.

The Last Bottled Soda Vending Machine East of the Missouri

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Jim Cihlar presents us with a highly imagistic look at a moment in time, gently evoking loss.

Max and the Broken Dishwasher

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George Davis, appliance repair technician—meet Max, a four-year-old, also broken.

On Boys, Nature, Aggression

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Conservationist Matt Williams shows the importance of reconnecting everyone, especially boys, back to the natural world.

A Month of Thankfulness: The One Who Taught Me Most

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Alex Yarde was taught by the best. And he remains eternally grateful.

Good Boy, Goliath. Good Boy.

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Uzi Peretz writes about how his relationship with his dog represented so much more, and how much he learned from Goliath right up until the end.

Dad Profiling: The Double Standard

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Mike Spohr was trying to console his crying niece. Unfortunately some people only see what they want to see.

Defining Moments: They Can Get F*&^%ed

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How can you escape an abusive past—a victim of bullying where no one believes you—without having those moments define you? One man’s story.

A Crutch, a Wish, a Bandaid, and the Search for Faith that Actually Matters

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What happens to faith when you come face-to-face with tragedy?

Things I Regret

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Tom Brechlin on taking things for granted, his father, and coming to terms with his biggest regret.

The Year Time Gets Screwed Up Is the Year I Fall in Love

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Conner Habib’s senior year is full of love and trouble.

“The kids that bullied me had no idea they’d play a part in 12 different suicide attempts. How could they?”

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This is a comment by Mike Potter on the post “Should We Forgive Apologetic Bullies?”