“Violence is an exclamation mark on a long sentence which starts during childhood and the suppression of boys’ emotions.”

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These are comments by Kris Huson and Dan Bulf on the post “Dear Mr. President, Our Nation’s Boys Need Your Attention”.

Chew

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Colin Berry remembers the summer when he went from boyhood to manhood.

Secrets and Smokes at Two Minutes to Midnight

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Kenny Bodanis is a father of two small children: nowadays, he craves sleep. But 25 years ago, up late with his friends, it was a different story.

Boston: A Love Story

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CJ Kaplan reflects on the luck of living in Boston, despite, or maybe because, of the tragedy at the Boston Marathon.

Finding the Boy in Your Father

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Your father wasn’t just a boy “back then.” He’s one now, too.

Tough Guy

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Mike O’Shea was a physically powerful and courageous man, but what made him a hero to his lifelong friend, Andrew Cotto, was his capacity for love.

A Letter to Myself: You’ve Made It

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John Freddy Hurtado came from a place of darkness, and writing was his way out.

“I wouldn’t blame anyone for having a difficult time deciding whether to give up their badge.”

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This is a comment by Kaleb Blake on the post “Eagle Scouts Returning Their Badges for LGBT Equality”.

I Hope My Son Is Lucky

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JD Roberto wasn’t a bad kid growing up, just a little wild and very lucky.

Of Mice and Mobsters

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Jamie Reidy credits Mario Puzo for teaching him about sex, and calls out Coppola for the pathetic portrayal of the most dangerous member of the Corleone Family.

Growing Up Angry No More: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys

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Boys don’t just “mellow out,” they learn to repress anger and fear. How to give your sons the freedom to feel and express the full range of emotions.

Open Thread: Things Boys Discover

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Boys explore the world and test limits differently. What truths did you discover as a boy?

Dear Son: Manhood Looms

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Growing up in a fast-paced world may be your greatest challenge yet.

My Nehru Jacket, 1972

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John Tinseth looks back on how his mother thwarted his first clandestine affair with the most voluptuous girl in his 9th grade class.

Open Thread: What Toy From Childhood Do You Wish You Still Had?

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What was your favorite toy as a kid?

“I’m Looking For The Long Lost Boyhood Map.”

Initiation

Men are made not born.