“I spent years in confusion that led me to ask awkward even wholly inappropriate questions at the wrong moments…”

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This is a comment by James on the post “What Happens When We Don’t Teach Our Boys About Sex”.

What Happens When We Don’t Teach Our Boys About Sex

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Exploring the mess we are in around male sexuality. How did we get here and what on earth do we do?

How To Be a Prince

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How Disney movies influence boys and men.

Teenage Boys and Virginity Loss

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Ozy Frantz breaks down the numbers in a CDC report on teenage sex. Spoiler alert: reality does not resemble stereotypes very well.

Maybe Old Dad Wasn’t All Bad

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Should loving fathers come on a little stronger about their sons’ grades?

Down a Path We Don’t Know Where

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Lisa Hickey looks back on the fears she had and the mistakes she made with her son.

“Whatever Life Hands You, Kick it in the Balls and Run.”

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A short film by Dan Guilbeault, who lost his sight at an early age but eventually re-found his best friend.

Ten things I've learned from MCA (AKA Nathanial Hörnblowér AKA Adam Yauch of the Beastie Boys)

I can blow you away, you can ride with me. I do what I do best because I’m willing and able. You’ve got gall, you’ve got guile. Step to me, I’m a rap-o-phile. On the tough guy style, I’m not too keen. Try to change the world, I’m a plot and scheme. This is all top [...]

Just Hit Someone

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When Erik Proulx has trouble moving forward as a business owner, he remembers the advice of his line coach back in his high school football games.

“Why the talk of ‘rape culture’ so often but not ‘murder of black boys’ culture’?”

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Because our impressions of events and what is a “culture” is determined by what and who we DO and DON’T care about, says Eric M.

Teaching Carefully

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As her sons care for a lost Chihuahua, Julie Gillis looks for teachers, healers, systems thinkers, interpreters, bridge builders, and storytellers as a way toward social change.

Do Teenage Boys Want Love Not Sex?

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New data on sexuality indicates boys are putting off sex and are much more interested in intimacy than we seem to give them credit for.

“How can we expect men to step up where no one taught them?”

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This comment was from Tom B. on the post “All Children Are Born With Potential: A Talk with Wendy Foster of Big Brothers, Big Sisters.”

Science Says: Better to Be A Boy Than A Girl

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Jamie Reidy summarizes a wonky scientific study.

Flier: Tips To Encourage Masculine Behavior In Our Sons

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“Teach your son to eat masculine, to speak masculine, to look masculine. Make sure he maintains a masculine-looking haircut.”

Teaching Boys To Blur The Line Between Good and Evil

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How do boys learn the difference between being “tamed”, being a good man, between doing evil, and getting what they want?