Why “Casual Sex” Rarely Has Casual Consequences

No matter how casually you treat the sexual act, you and your life (and the lives of your partners) are worth more than that.

Sex Helps Create Gender. Here’s How

Georgia Platts shows how sex helps define what roles gender play in our society.

How to Feel Comfortable with Her History of Hookups

Advice columnist August McLaughlin helps a guy understand his girlfriend’s past history of casual sex.

4 Lessons From a Disastrous Experience With the Seduction Community

For all the invincible confidence picking up girls gave me, it also gifted me with massive delusions that it took me years of frustration and failure to unrave

The Truth About Casual Sex (And How To Get It)

There are a lot of factors other than wanting to sleep with someone that determine the likeliness of casual sex. Dr. Nerd Love lays it down for us.

Cleansed, Crisp and Crippled: The Challenges of Staying Dapperly Delicious While Disabled

Dating while disabled comes with certain challenges. Andrew Morrison-Gurza recently had to face a difficult one.

How Eliminating Ambiguity Led to More Sex With Less Stress

After a tough breakup, Tim Bell decided on three relationship rules that got him a lot more of what he did want, and less of what he wanted to avoid.

I Sing the Body Connected: Cultivating Sexual Energy

For John McElhenney, once the connection has been established, even with a woman who may not be a perfect match, there is an energy, a confidence, a glow that transforms every cell of his body.

My Casual Sex Experience—First Lessons

She didn’t even walk me out, as she had done every time before. Casual had its appeal, but now it feels a bit too callous.

How to Maintain a Casual (Romantic) Relationship

You may not be interested in commitment, and that’s totally fine. Dr. NerdLove explains how you can maintain a respectful casual relationship.

The Magic of Casual Sex Over 50

Forget about planning. The way to make middle-aged casual sex happen is to let it happen.

5 Wonderful and Unexpected Benefits of Being a Serial Monogamist

So yes, I’m a serial monogamist, but it’s not because I always have to be in a relationship. I’m a serial monogamist because I’m hoping to find the next relationship at some point.

A Minor Dilemma

Like the ocean that it features, Matthew Hittinger’s poem alternates between stormy and dreamlike, with little interim warning.

Agua y besos: How Do We Gain So Much Energy from Love?

Water and kisses are enough in the early stages of bliss. But in the long haul you’ll need to find sustenance and shelter from the storms that are always on the horizon.

“Just wanting lots of sex with multiple partners does not make you shallow or immature.”

This comment by Steve on the post “Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

The Lonely Generation: Why Not Every Man Wants To Sleep Around

Andrew Jakubowski opens up about isolation and challenges his generation’s understanding of intimacy.