I Sing the Body Connected: Cultivating Sexual Energy

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For John McElhenney, once the connection has been established, even with a woman who may not be a perfect match, there is an energy, a confidence, a glow that transforms every cell of his body.

My Casual Sex Experience—First Lessons

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She didn’t even walk me out, as she had done every time before. Casual had its appeal, but now it feels a bit too callous.

How to Maintain a Casual (Romantic) Relationship

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You may not be interested in commitment, and that’s totally fine. Dr. NerdLove explains how you can maintain a respectful casual relationship.

The Magic of Casual Sex Over 50

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Forget about planning. The way to make middle-aged casual sex happen is to let it happen.

5 Wonderful and Unexpected Benefits of Being a Serial Monogamist

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So yes, I’m a serial monogamist, but it’s not because I always have to be in a relationship. I’m a serial monogamist because I’m hoping to find the next relationship at some point.

A Minor Dilemma

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Like the ocean that it features, Matthew Hittinger’s poem alternates between stormy and dreamlike, with little interim warning.

Agua y besos: How Do We Gain So Much Energy from Love?

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Water and kisses are enough in the early stages of bliss. But in the long haul you’ll need to find sustenance and shelter from the storms that are always on the horizon.

“Just wanting lots of sex with multiple partners does not make you shallow or immature.”

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This comment by Steve on the post “Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

The Lonely Generation: Why Not Every Man Wants To Sleep Around

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Andrew Jakubowski opens up about isolation and challenges his generation’s understanding of intimacy.

How to Get Everything You Want from Casual Sex (without Hurting People)

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Robin Juliet explains how to have a healthy and honest NSA relationship without guilt or heartbreak

This is How to Change the Game

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While sex isn’t a game, the best solution is to make sure everyone wins. Bex VanKoot explains how.

5 Ways We Misunderstand Casual Sex

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Kerry Cohen challenges assumptions about new evidence showing women and men have different experiences during casual sexual encounters.

Chasing Christina and Why I Stopped Being a Player

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LeRon Barton thought he had everything, thought he was “the man”. But he couldn’t understand why he wasn’t happy.

“I believe connected-by-the-heart intimate sex can be wonderful; but other types of sex can be good, even wonderful, too.”

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This is a comment by W.R.R. on the post “Heart and Balls”.

What Men Really Want

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Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

“It was the scariest thing to admit that I wanted more than a quick romp.”

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This comment was by Vironika Tugaleva on the post On Love, Being in Love, and Waiting for a Train I love this article. So honest and beautiful. I love how you said that it’s scary to admit that you need it too. I remember the first time I admitted openly that I wanted gentleness… Love… […]