“Just wanting lots of sex with multiple partners does not make you shallow or immature.”

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This comment by Steve on the post “Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

The Lonely Generation: Why Not Every Man Wants To Sleep Around

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Andrew Jakubowski opens up about isolation and challenges his generation’s understanding of intimacy.

How to Get Everything You Want from Casual Sex (without Hurting People)

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Robin Juliet explains how to have a healthy and honest NSA relationship without guilt or heartbreak

This is How to Change the Game

Dating, Treating Sex like a Game, Game Playing, Orgasm, Sex is a Game

While sex isn’t a game, the best solution is to make sure everyone wins. Bex VanKoot explains how.

5 Ways We Misunderstand Casual Sex

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Kerry Cohen challenges assumptions about new evidence showing women and men have different experiences during casual sexual encounters.

Chasing Christina and Why I Stopped Being a Player

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LeRon Barton thought he had everything, thought he was “the man”. But he couldn’t understand why he wasn’t happy.

“I believe connected-by-the-heart intimate sex can be wonderful; but other types of sex can be good, even wonderful, too.”


This is a comment by W.R.R. on the post “Heart and Balls”.

What Men Really Want

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Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

“It was the scariest thing to admit that I wanted more than a quick romp.”

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Tweet This comment was by Vironika Tugaleva on the post On Love, Being in Love, and Waiting for a Train I love this article. So honest and beautiful. I love how you said that it’s scary to admit that you need it too. I remember the first time I admitted openly that I wanted gentleness… […]

I Became an Escort


Felicity Hodgman treated affairs like a drug, and men as disposable.

Men Have Multiple Brains


Gint Aras makes a curious discovery while eating nuts.

Keith asks, “Is the casual sex marketplace heavily biased against men?”


This is a comment by Keith, John, and John D on the post “On Women and Casual Sex – Part II: Flings, One Night Stands and Same Night Lays”.

“My best casual sex was after flirtatious bar conversation and chat about sexual preferences, arm in arm, going to their place.”


These are comments by SecondBeach, John, and Mike on the post “On Women and Casual Sex – Part II: Flings, One Night Stands and Same Night Lays”.

On Women and Casual Sex – Part I: The Pleasure Theory


Actually, Good Charlotte, girls DON’T like cars and money—as much as they like boys who know how to “please” them…

“People don’t raise the topic of casual sex for fear of embarrassment or offending.”


This is a comment by Notavi on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.

Can’t Get Laid

TweetRecently, the inimitable Captain Awkward provided advice to a gentleman who was flirted with somewhat avidly but didn’t end up having sex with the lady in question, and feels somewhat wrong about all of this. I’d just like to signal-boost this bit right here: Fallacy #1: ”Young heterosexual dudes are up for sex all the time, […]