Watching Her Walk in Her Sexual Power

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Pamela Madsen imagines a day when women and men can flirt without fear.

Self Check: Holding Ourselves and Our Communities Accountable

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Kai M. Green insists that too many times, oppressed people use whatever power they have secured to oppress another, instead of using that power to challenge the hierarchal order of things.

Since a Woman Was Stabbed, I Can No Longer Laugh off Catcalls

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Kate Conway and her friends used to laugh off the street harassment they endured every day. But now they are starting to understand the danger.

Why Black Women Also Fear Black Men

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Though the fear of black men by white people is based on racist stereotypes, black women’s fear is rooted in a lifetime of experience.

Why Men Catcall

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For today’s Man Up Monday, Carlos Andrés Gómez challenges men to rise up against the street harassment so many of us have become desensitized to.

“I can tell the difference between erotic appreciation and flirting and sexual graffiti that can be sprayed on randomly.”

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This comment was by Julie Gillis, in response to Jimmy, on the post “Chasing Beauty: An Addict’s Memoir.”

Men May Never Truly Understand a Day in the Life of Women. But Shouldn’t We Try?

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Yashar Ali believes that having consciousness about the daily struggles of women makes him a better man.

How Do You Picture a Man Who Gets Catcalled?

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“Interesting that you’ve chosen a photo of a black man in a hard hat to illustrate this article.”