Male Sexuality is Threatening Because We Don’t Understand It

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Andrew Smiler identifies 7 things we can do today to change ideas about male sexuality

Is Neil Patrick Harris Gay Enough?


What’s lost, if anything, when a prominent gay man becomes a symbol of hetero-masculinity

How I Landed in the Ring with Azealia Banks & Perez Hilton


Janet Mock insists that if we’re going to call famous people out for their disparaging and abusive language, we need to call them all out, no matter what color or gender they are.

Baseball on the Silver Screen


In the spirit of Oscar season, Paul Lanning offers his 15 favorite movies about the national pastime.

Morality, Money and “Two and a Half Men”


Child-star-turned-born-again-Christian Angus T. Jones trashes “Two and a Half Men,” the very show on which he stars. “I’m on Two and a Half Men, and I don’t want to be on it,” he says, after warning people to stop watching the show. “Please stop watching it,” he continues. “Please stop filling your head with filth.”

Is It Fair to Believe Men Can Be Summed Up By Our Desire to Drink, F*** and Swear?


Even “regular guys” aren’t two-dimensional stereotypes, says Tom Matlack.

Wrong Fingers: Chris Brown is a Role Model Alright

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As wrong as it may seem, many people look up to Chris Brown. Jeff Perera believes it’s time Chris Brown takes some responsibility for his actions.

Out of the Prisons and Into Pop Culture

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Showtime explains how the infusion of “jailhouse culture” into our society is desensitizing our youth to the horrors of the prison system.

“Don’t Sell Your Hair to A Wig Shop” – Direct TV Ads Killing

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Jamie Reidy shares his opinion on the latest commercial in a hilarious ad campaign.

What Is a “Good” Man?


This is a project not a destination, for us collectively and for each one of us personally.

Two and a Half Shades of Masculinity


Joanna Schroeder hates the show Two and a Half Men, and wonders if she’s the only one.

Why I’m More Like Charlie Sheen Than Barack Obama


Tom Matlack asks the question: what happened to our midlife crisis?

Becoming an Asshole…For Good?


Ron Mattocks finds inspiration and wisdom in some unlikely characters: Don Draper, for instance.

Hazy Shade of Winter

 Time, time, time See what’s become of me The Bangles       You’re probably going, “J.R., it’s Thursday and this is a Music Monday post, WTF?”  I know, but it’s my blog so I can do whatever the hell I want.  Please read it and enjoy.     I’ve been feeling down lately.  I’ll […]

Has Anyone Ever Laughed at a Comedy Central Roast?

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As the Comedy Central roast reaches a new low with Charlie Sheen, Alan Siegel wonders how something so un-funny has stuck around for so long.

Good Morning Links

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Today is Tuesday, May 17, and the “Terminator” line, “Your clothes, give them to me,” keeps playing in our head for some reason. Here are some other links of note today.