“Sometimes the attention that’s meant to help and protect and diagnose and treat may make the situation worse in the long run.”

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This comment was from wellokaythen on the post “Are Women Contributing to the Demise of Men?” by Tom Matlack on the Good Feed Blog.

How My Mother and My Sisters Tried to Make Me Look Like a Monster

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Collin Slattery recounts his mother and sisters, their vicious plan to ruin his life, and the invaluable price of what he gained in order to replace what they took.

No Means Yes, and Maybe, and No

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Charlie Capen attempts to decipher his toddler’s language, and finds that such attempts hold little promise for success—or clarity.

Dear John: ‘I Do’ to ‘I Did’

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Can’t my sister see she and her husband have to stay together for their kids? Why is my husband obsessed with teaching our son to fight? Is posting our arguments on Facebook worth breaking up over?

She Called for Me, Not Her Mom

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Unlike his father, Steven Axelrod turned away from Hollywood and back toward his family—and found joy.

Shut Mouth: Please, Stop Giving Me Your Parenting Advice

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Loved-ones and strangers wanting to pet your baby comes with the territory, but please curb the undesired parenting advice, Charlie Capen writes.

National ‘Let Your Boy Be a Girl’ Day

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Boys will discover their own interpretations of their gender if they’re given the freedom to explore masculinity—and femininity—on their own, Soraya Chemaly writes.

Anger Mismanagement

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Joel Schwartzberg found he had to reconcile with his own childhood anger before being able to help his son.

You Bette Believe It: Heartbreak in a Macho World

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In a man’s man’s world, who says there’s no room for Bette Midler?

Tears Over X-Men: A Story About Race

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Discovering that you and your favorite mutants share a deep connection isn’t easy.

The Funny Thing About Semen

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How a “seminal moment” caused decades of confusion for Jake DiMare.

On Boys, Suicide, and the Lessons of Unfilled Holes

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“We need to teach our boys that they can bear suffering and loss without shame … that anger is a question that deserves deeper answers than punishment or silence.”

Meds, Horses, and Uncle Fred’s Farm for My ADHD Son

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After months at a therapeutic boarding school, Pauline Gaines’ son has recognizably changed.

The Importance of Masculinity in Boyhood Development

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“The question is: do parents have enough trust in boy development to let them take some risks and make some mistakes?”

Dear John: We’re Only Dating Because We’re Different Races

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Is it time to break up with him? Why did my husband have to discourage our son? Am I exploiting my friends by using experiences they’ve shared with me in my writing?

My Son Goes to Boarding School, and No, I Don’t Mean Exeter

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Pauline Gaines offers perspective about divorce, family therapy, and boarding schools for the troubled.