The Vasectomy: A Conversation with My “Boys”

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After the latest edition to his family, Christian Piatt decided it was time to retire “the fellas” and get a vasectomy.

The New “Normal”

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When John Taylor’s wife got a new job, he got a new job title, too: Stay-at-Home-Dad.

Photoshopping My Neck

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William L. Walker has an ally against the inexorable march of time. It’s called Photoshop.

My Husband Does Do That: My Journey Out of the Equal Parenting Closet

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Lyla Cicero is the odd woman out in her mothers’ group because her husband is not only a supportive father, he’s an excellent husband. So why does she feel the need to hide it?

Childbirth, C-Sections and the Violence of Creation

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Christian Piatt talks about witnessing the birth of his son, and how while it’s miraculous, it’s also violent.

“Men being called on to be protectors is gone along with the 20th century.”

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This is a comment by Transhuman on the post “Providence Girl Beaten While Neighbor Videotapes”.

Lunchroom Logistics

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Inside school cafeterias are complex societies full of a hyper-awareness of social status, in which popularity is traded like stock.

Children, Chocolate and Honesty

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In raising children, Seth Jaret learned that being honest may not always be easy, but if we don’t block it, it does come naturally.

“You misunderstand what spanking is.”

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This is a comment by Eric M. on the post “Four Things a Parent Must Never Do When Angry”.

Four Things a Parent Must Never Do When Angry

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Peder Hill talks about the effects of anger on children and what he’s learned about being a dad.

Competent Dads and Other Mythical Creatures

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Kim Quinn asks why people act like good fathers are some miraculous rarity when, to her eyes, they’re all around.

The Power of Being Powerless

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Why dignity is more important than the one intangible commodity men trade most

Homo’s Odyssey

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An unexpected breakdown on a family trip gave William Lucas Walker and his husband a chance to teach their kids what real family values are.

Working to Make a Life

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Dan Griffin works to balance it all – career, family, travel, you name it. But at the end of the day, his work-life balance is focused on his family.

Please Don’t Let My Kids Find Out

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…how good I am at talking to other kids. Why can’t my work-self come home with me?

A Response to “A Manifesto for Conscious Men”

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Sometimes it hurts being a man in modern western society.