How Women Aren’t Being as Proactive in Modern Dating as They Think

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If women really are asking guys who are complete strangers out on dates, Joe Welkie would like to see the proof.

The Forgotten Value Of Commitment

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Commitment is not the act of losing your freedom; but exercising it to choose who you want to give your most valuable gifts to.

6 Secrets of a Happy Second Marriage

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Second marriages offer special challenges, but really, these tips apply to any long-term committed relationship.

The Real Reason Nice Guys Finish Last

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You’re gonna have to do more than be nice to get the girl.

Suit Up: Advice For Men From A Woman Working In Fashion

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Put on a suit once in awhile, listen intently, open doors and don’t talk about your ex. Dawn Estenor doesn’t think it’s too much to ask of modern gentlemen.

A Man by Any Other Name — Does “Gentleman” Still Mean Anything?

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Once upon a time it was a designation of character. One that men strove for, one that was valued. Are those times forever gone?

The Best Piece of Man-to-Man Advice I Ever Got

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Tor Constantino believes some of life’s greatest lessons for manhood come from seemingly insignificant, man-to-man moments.

Psssssstt… Miss Independent May Actually Want You to Take Care of Her

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It’s not always easy to find the balance between chivalry and chauvinism.

The Modern Gentleman Doesn’t Exist … Because Women Won’t Let Him

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Why is it then that the idea of the gentleman seems so stuck in time and stifled by an unrealistic and widespread view of how a man should act and the lifestyle he should embody?

10 Things Men Need To Start Doing To Become Gentlemen Again

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How to be a gentleman in the 21st century, minus any creepy, unintended sexism.

Married to the Masculine: I Want a Divorce!

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Steven Lake flies backward in time to understand how he has conceptualized masculinity and what it means to be “male.”

The Old-School Gentleman and the Modern Independent Woman: Is it a Pairing Destined for Disaster?

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Eduardo García discusses how respect and understanding are the most important aspects of a relationship between Men and Women, no matter how opposite their views might be.

Sex Sells, But At What Cost? How The Media Killed Romance

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A Gen Y writer laments the death of chivalry.

Shaming the Gentle Man

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How the word chivalry is taken as offensive by some men.

A Defined Gentleman: 3 Basic Concepts to Being a Good Man

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“A gentleman is to be measured in his speech, generosity in giving, sober in eating, honesty in living, kindness in forgiving, and courageousness in fighting.”

Gender Neutral Civility? Just Another Excuse.

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As long as we think that gender equality comes from not recognizing gender, things will never change.