Feminist Lessons From the Seduction Community, Part Two: Self-Help Versus Misogyny

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Clarisse Thorn continues her exploration into the world of the Pickup Artist and finds a confused, often conflicting culture.

Feminist S&M Lessons From the Seduction Community: Part One, the “Neg”

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Clarisse Thorn begins her deep exploration into the world of the Pick-Up Artist.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Four

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After a long look, Clarisse Thorn finally finds her sexual identity.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Three

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Clarisse Thorn continues her journey toward a fulfilling sex life.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Two

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Clarisse Thorne had an orgasm once. Then, she couldn’t have another.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm

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Clarisse Thorn searches her past experiences, physiology, and sexual preferences to shine light on what constitutes the female orgasm.

The Myth of the Sex-Crazy Nympho Dream Girl

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Clarisse Thorn on why men and women ‘perform’ in bed—and why we have a tough time figuring out what genuinely turns us on.

Nice Guys: Finish First Without Pickup Gimmickry

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Responding to the call from “nice guys” for ethical pickup advice, Amanda Marcotte offers six tips for sustainable dating success.

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Ethical Pickup Artistry

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Where can men find non-misogynist advice for hitting on women?

Why Are Men Expected to Make the First Move?

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Are we ready to move past these stereotypical roles?

Lit Inspiration: Being Good in Bed Is About Attentiveness

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It’s true that size does, generally, matter. But I really do believe that these things matter a hell of a lot less than open-hearted and open-minded attention to one’s partner. And that’s why I love this quotation from Haruki Murakami’s Sputnik Sweetheart.

Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs?

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Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they’re candid about their desires. So how can a man express his sexual needs without being tarred as a creep?