3 Breakups: an Anatomy of the Devastation (and How to Heal)

After the breakup, the injured need to experience love again and know that they still matter.

10 Questions For Deeper Intimacy in Your Relationships

Ask—and answer—these 10 questions to get more connected with your partner.

4 Ways Guys Can Build Intimacy Into Your Relationships

Tor Constantino says taking your long-term relationship to the next level requires a new level of intimacy.

5 Simple Steps I’m Taking To Become a More Thoughtful Husband

Ben Martin realized his wife was doing all the thoughtfulness in his marriage, so he made a plan to become a more thoughtful person.

6 Marriage Myths Debunked

Debunking 6 myths about marriage that everybody’s heard.

Talking About Boston with My Boy

A car trip with one of my boys provides closeness and perspective—over the Boston Marathon bombings .

“It is totally okay for men have close, loving relationships with other guys.”

This is a comment by Miguel on the post “Close Male Friendship Appreciation”.

“Why can’t we feel safe enough in our intimate relationships to reveal all of ourselves?”

This is a comment by Nick, mostly on the post “Why Is My Boyfriend Lying to Me About His Past?”.

7 Things I Find Attractive in a Woman Now That I Am 50

James Elliot’s tastes have matured along with him. Here, he talks about what’s so sexy about women his own age.

“I sought the services of a sex worker because I was terrified of initiating physical contact.”

This is a comment by It’s the Touch on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.