Nineteen

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A gentleman not yet twenty, on the yokes of masculinity, maturity, and civility.

Quarter-Life Crisis: 7/21

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Coming of age takes longer than ever.

I Hate Miami: Does Sports Teach Hostility?

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Andy Hinds fears that sports culture may be teaching our kids aggression, based upon a cultish and arbitrary legacy.

My First R-Rated Movie with My Dad

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Jamie Reidy shares the funny story of the first time he and his father watched an R-Rated movie together: “Animal House.”

“I remember when I was a young lad, my hero was Stephen Hawking.”

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This is a comment by Jake on the post “Who Are Your Real-Life Heroes”.

5 Steps for Dads to Make it Through Prom Season

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Prom season can pose a threat to a father’s sanity if he allows it. Here’s help coping.

“I never wanted that desperate have-sex-with-whoever-is-willing-just-so you’re-not-a-virgin act.”

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This comment is from Jake on the open thread discussion “How Did You Learn About the Birds and the Bees?”

Remembering 12 Anxious Men for Final Four Week

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JP Pelosi remembers a locker room filled with fear as he was coached to play mistake-free basketball.

“Ya know…you’re not like black…you’re cool.”

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This comment was by Krishnabrodhi on the post by Jackie Summers “You’ve Got to be Carefully Taught.”

The Shifting Definition of Adulthood

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Nick Maviglia asks what adulthood means for twentysomethings in a post-baby boomer world.

“An unpublished recollection of my short football career.”

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This comment was by Tom Matlack, on Jamie Reidy’s post Bad Sports: NFL’s Saints Pay for Pain

Boys to Men: The NFL Scouting Combine

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Deanna Ogle explains that to watch the NFL Combine is to watch boys become men.

Boyish Curiosity

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Megan Rosker sees the movie Tree of Life and is left with the idea that curiosity is what answers our darkest questions and spurs us forward as a collective community of thinkers.

Storm Damage

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Raymond Bechard has a confrontation with his 87-year old mother, which reminds him of how much memories — even 42-year-old memories — can shape us.

A Lesson on Manhood Courtesy of a Special Olympian

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“Will you be my girlfriend?” he beamed, smiling as wide as the sky. My jaw dropped. “But Carl, I’m a boy. Not a girl.”

1929, 1941, 2001. On coming of age and hope, despite all

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My daughter is coming of age in a society struggling to overcome its own shortsightedness, greed, and failure. But in her eyes, I see no condemnation and no angst for the future.