Comment of the Day: “Don’t Cry on My Watch”


This comment is by El Bearsidente on the post Heart-Wrenching Photo of Doctor Crying Goes Viral. Here’s Why.

Comment of the Day: “I find it sorta amusing, what guys are afraid of.”


This comment was by bud, on the post Straight Guy in Bed With Another Man

Comment of the Day: “Life is a complex game, not a snapshot”

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This comment is by Lucas, on the post “She’s still the same person, but I just know a little more about her.”

Why would a polyamorous person get married?


You never know where an idea will take you.

Comment of the Day: “Confidence isn’t about control or certainty. It’s about letting go and getting comfortable with the uncomfortable.”


This comment was by Steve Horsman on the post “5 Surprising Ways Men Can Be More Confident In Relationships”

Comment of the Day: “My perception of beauty has always been different from that of the men around me.”


This comment is from Theorema Egregium on the post “The Fatal Flaws of Pick-Up (And a Promising Alternative)”

“I am a much better man because of dancing.”


After he overcame his lifelong fear of it, one reader found that dancing gave him a new and amazing way to connect.

Comment of the Day: “I am an officer at a prison where macho is important.”


This comment was by Tom and originally appeared on the post “Why People Think My Boyfriends and I Are Gay”.

Sunday Reader Tweets of the Day

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See what our readers are saying about us on Twitter.

Saturday Reader Tweets of the Day


See what our readers are saying about @goodmenproject on Twitter!

Comment of the Day: “The income streams of music are changing and the old ways are dying.”


“All the studies show that the largest illegal downloaders of music are also the largest purchasers of music.”  — From Chris Huff, in response to Download This: My Troubled Love Affair with Buying Music: All the studies show that the largest illegal downloaders of music are also the largest purchasers of music. Iggy in that […]

Comment of the Day: “Do too many choices paralyze people?”

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Are we faced with so many choices that it’s hard to decide what to do with our lives?

COTD: “What kind of message does this send to wives, daughters, sisters?”

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After reading “How to Insult a Man”, one reader asks, “What’s wrong with being like a girl?!”.

Comment of the Day: “..relationships, personal growth, coping with uncertainty…”


In our rapidly changing world, should parents be advisers to their children?

Comment of the Day: “It was an impossible assignment…and yet the teacher got mad that they did not answer the question.”

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“I remember in 4th or 6th grade, our teacher talked about Ellis Island and immigration…”

Comment of the Day: “Relationships have to work in the everyday for me if they are to last.”


Relationships evolve. Sometimes less really is more.