Comment of the Day: “I am an officer at a prison where macho is important.”


This comment was by Tom and originally appeared on the post “Why People Think My Boyfriends and I Are Gay”.

Sunday Reader Tweets of the Day

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See what our readers are saying about us on Twitter.

Saturday Reader Tweets of the Day


See what our readers are saying about @goodmenproject on Twitter!

Comment of the Day: “The income streams of music are changing and the old ways are dying.”


“All the studies show that the largest illegal downloaders of music are also the largest purchasers of music.”  — From Chris Huff, in response to Download This: My Troubled Love Affair with Buying Music: All the studies show that the largest illegal downloaders of music are also the largest purchasers of music. Iggy in that […]

Comment of the Day: “Do too many choices paralyze people?”

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Are we faced with so many choices that it’s hard to decide what to do with our lives?

COTD: “What kind of message does this send to wives, daughters, sisters?”

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After reading “How to Insult a Man”, one reader asks, “What’s wrong with being like a girl?!”.

Comment of the Day: “..relationships, personal growth, coping with uncertainty…”


In our rapidly changing world, should parents be advisers to their children?

Comment of the Day: “It was an impossible assignment…and yet the teacher got mad that they did not answer the question.”

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“I remember in 4th or 6th grade, our teacher talked about Ellis Island and immigration…”

Comment of the Day: “Relationships have to work in the everyday for me if they are to last.”


Relationships evolve. Sometimes less really is more.

Comment of the Day: “Are our kids over-structured?”

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What do you think? Are kids being over-scheduled and over-structured?

Comment of the Day: “Are labels the real problem?”


The difference in not about the label, but rather the absence of fear.

Comment of the Day: “‘Man up’ should have a place in our speech, as should other ‘shaming’ language. Sometimes people ought to feel ashamed of themselves.”


This comment is by Alastair on the post “5 Reasons Why I Don’t Say the Words ‘Man Up'”

Comment of the Day: “I have a lot of problems with mainstream definitions of manliness.”


This comment of the day was by Philip on the post 5 reasons I don’t Say “Man Up”.

Comment of the Day: ‘There is no absolute law to use as a reference for measuring righteousness.’

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This comment was by Sasquatch on the post Moral Relativism vs. Cultural Relatism

Why IS there such a resistance to the idea of male beauty?

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This comment was posted by Carleton on Three Reasons Why Men Don’t Know They are Beautiful :

“At my age, if I need immediate gratification, all I have to do is look at my wife, my kids and grandkids…”

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This Comment Of The Day was by Tom Brechlin on the post Long Term Motivation in an Instant Gratification World