My Queer Life: On Being Transgender and Married. Twice.


Alex Myers married his wife twice. Once as part of a same-sex couple and again as an opposite-sex couple. Here’s what this taught him about marriage.

The 5 Ways Gay Married Men Are Turning Back the Wedding Clock

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David Toussaint supports marriage equality, but is disappointed with the attitude of some couples towards the thing they worked so hard for.

The Shock of Breaking Up

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Thomas Fiffer examines the earthquake that strikes when a relationship breaks apart, and the subtle, subterranean shifts that precede it.

Unsexy Things Necessary for Staying Committed

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Sorry, folks. Date nights and weekend escapes just won’t cut it. Staying together means getting down and dirty in other ways, too.

Open Letter to Sex Spreadsheet Husband on Reddit

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“Did you get a sense of where she was at already before introducing what was wanted next?”

Do You Want To Write, Or Do You Want To Be A Writer?


Been dreaming of that great story you want to write? Maybe it’s time to stop dreaming and start writing.

Looking for Mr. Right…Now


Caryn DeVincenti shares her story of her search for love, and comes to unexpected conclusions.

This Ain’t Your Father’s Marriage

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The Good Men Project invites you to submit a post and join a changing conversation about men, marriage, and commitment.

When Partners Say They’re Leaving, Don’t Ignore Them.

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Heather Gray helps you find the middle ground between ignoring your partner’s pain and shouldering the blame.

Why Communities Must Encourage Black Fathers to Commit to Marriage


Rachel Miller-Bradshaw discusses the positive impact of fathers committed to marriage in the Black community

“Difficulties can be managed by two people who care for one another”


What Men Are Saying When They Talk About Intimacy

What Men Are Saying When They Talk About Intimacy

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For men to fully connect in relationships, we need to release them from the double bind they encounter when discussing intimacy.

The 21st Century Woman: How To Better Understand What She Really Wants


Men, allow me to introduce you to the 21st Century Woman.

“Amazing Life Together”: Liz and Ryan’s Story


Lovementary documents a romance between a beautiful couple who are dedicated to keeping their relationship and others’ relationships strong and full of love.

An Open Letter to my Future Wife: How I Plan to Make you Happy Every day of Your Life

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Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.

Sex, Marriage, and a Fear of Intimacy

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Richard Nicastro knows that sex and intimacy are not the same thing. If you can answer his tough questions, your sex life will be hotter and you’ll feel more connected to your partner or spouse.