Dear John: With His Father Dying, So Are His Chances To Talk

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A last chance for a son to reconcile with his dying father, a father pushing his son to be involved in aggressive sports, and a boyfriend who was abused as a child.

I’m Doing This Because I Love You

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Stephen Michell knows that being a man means taking action. But what action shows your brother that you love him, and that you’ll miss him when he leaves?

The Friend Zone: It’s Not Just for Men

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The Friend Zone exists, and it’s not just something women do to men, Neil Sheppard reports. “I know, because I’ve done it.”

Dear John: Haunted By Hook-Up At His Kid’s School’s Drop-Off

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Someone bound to remember a regrettable hook-up, a friend who can’t take criticism, and an ill friend who guilts people into getting what she wants.

Confessions From a Former Psycho Bitch From Hell

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A quest for perfection turned Vironika Tugaleva into an urban legend.

How to (Unsuccessfully) Deal With a Workplace Bully

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Allan Mott never quite found the right way to deal with a bully he was forced to work with.

“Should I Be Friends with My Ex?”

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I still care about him. What should I do?

A Business Expense: Hair Grows on Company Time

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“Have you ever seen a telephone wire with a bunch of birds sitting on it?” I nod. “Birds fly up and join the other birds… But you my friend—You’re like the bird that flutters around the wire. Not sure where or even if he wants to land.”

Prizefighters and Poppas

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What does the life deliberately and well lived look like?

Nude, Night, Illegal Bungee Jumping!

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How many things would you never have done, if it weren’t for your best friend?

Dear John: My Neighbor Is A Pervert

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Dear John addresses a guy next door watching porn, a girlfriend posing nude for art school, and a passive-aggressive neighbor.

Pisser

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My not-so-secret glee of violating urinal etiquette.

Life Is a Lesson, Not a Test

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Here’s to the girl who made me the man I am today.

Your Wedding, Your Life

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The greatest threat to marital peace is a set of unrealistic expectations, demands which may reach an early climax in the wedding ceremony.

The Case of Pam’s Rusty Funnel

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What do you do when you can’t keep from laughing at storytime, but for all the wrong reasons?

Dear John: Will Making Her Feel Awful Make Him Feel Better?

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Dear John addresses a drunken one night stand, hating a girlfriend’s hair cut, and a daughter who is embarrassed by her father.