Don’t Mention Her Mother and Other Rules for Fighting Fair

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“While it may seem like a good idea to give as much “evidence” as possible to support our side of the argument, it isn’t. No one likes having a partner who ‘keeps score’.”

Three Words From Dad That Changed My Life

Three Words from Dad by Barney Moss

Adam Patrick Kindilien knows a father’s advice can be priceless, and he’s grateful for the gift.

Are You a Teachable Spouse?

Are You by Bryan McDonald

For couples in conflict, Mike Berry has identified the critical question.

How to Share Your Unpopular Opinion (Without Being a Jerk)

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Harris O’Malley reminds us that having a conflicting opinion isn’t a problem, but being an a**hole is.

When Does a War Truly End?

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Thomas Pluck believes that wars battle on until everyone touched by them is dead. And on and on they go.

My Father, Ft. Bragg 1966

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John Tinseth looks back at his father’s odd A-Team going into Vietnam.

10 Things Kids Need When Parents Divorce

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While you are moving through your emotional pain, you also need to remember that your children did nothing to cause your divorce and therefore should be shielded from your “animosity” towards one another.

1-Minute Relationship Mastery: Learning to Wait

1 Minute Relationship Mastery by zaneology

“If communication is the Superman of relationships, then ‘right now’ is kryptonite.”

How to Complain Without Hurting Your Partner

How to Complain by Gottman

All partners complain about each other’s behavior. But successful couples know how to make their points without making each other miserable.

What We Really Fight Over in Marriage

What We Fight Over by frankieleon

Marriage guru John Gottman reveals what underlies most marital conflict and explains why partners can’t yield.

Escaping the Trap of Past Conflict

Escaping by Reddy Aprianto

Unresolved conflict from the past may be the most harmful influence on your future. Steve Spring offers some simple ways to let go.

How You Can Avoid Drama In Your Relationship

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Are you sabotaging your relationship with drama? Harris O’Malley shows  us how to avoid it in the future.

The Wrong Way to Ask for a Divorce

The Wrong Way by Dennis Skley

Ending a marriage is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be cruel.

8 Toxic Phrases That Shatter Relationships

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Couples in healthy relationships know there are some things you just don’t say.

Are You Building Sandcastles?

Are You Building by Steve Hardy

These words on love read as if they were written by a wise old sage, but they come from a young man of only 25.

6 Tips to Keep Your Next Fight With Her From Going Volcanic

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Every relationship has explosive conflicts. Tor Constantino shares tips from 20 years of marriage to help defuse them before they erupt.