How-to Guide for Dads to Talk to Sons About Women [Video]


When it’s time for “that other talk,” these ideas could make it a little bit easier.

You’re in Charge of Your Body. I Still Get to Make Rules.

You're in Charge of Your Body. I Still Get to Make Rules.

John Kinnear loves the feminist dad shirt meme that’s been making the rounds, but wants his daughter to know that saying “she makes the rules” isn’t as simple as it sounds.

Are You Feeling Pressured? A New Way to Ask for Sexual Consent


Jennifer Gunsaullus offers a new means for verbal consent in bed.

When I Write, I Do Not Give You Consent

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Sam Killermann has a few things he’s like to clear up about how people treat those who write on the internet. Take a moment…this might have happened to you.

“Is Circumcision Necessary and If So Why?”


Why I Chose Not To Circumcise My Son

7 A’s of Hooking Up

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Want to know the 7 A’s of hot, consensual sex?

How To Touch Her


Learning how to flirt and touch a woman in a way that is both consensual and sexy is a fine art. Dr. NerdLove gives guys a primer.

What Led Me to Abandon My Stay-at-Home-Dad Community

What Led Me to Abandon My Stay-at-Home-Dad Community

Brent Brookhouse joined an online stay-at-home-dad group for discussion and support, instead found a faction of fathers who railed against the stereotyping of men, while marginalizing and harassing women.

“Rape Culture” Will End When Consent Becomes Sexy

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Look out rape culture, this 22-year-old entrepreneur’s gonna take you down, one thong at a time.

“Can Women rape men? Most people think that they can’t.”

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Teaching Boys to Respect Girls


How can we teach boys respect if we don’t give them any?

Stop Saying That You’re A Great Lover

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The title of “Great Lover” is one you earn, not one you claim for yourself. And it can take work. Very fun work.

Do You Really Wish It Had Been You?

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Rape is not sex seems like the most obvious fact in the world. Then why do we call some guys “lucky” asks Danny.

Consent 102: Clarifying the Gray Spaces

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Andrew Smiler offers three suggestions on how to leave the gray zone of sexual consent.

Why Non-Verbal Signals Fail as Substitutes For Consent

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Scott Heerman explains the problematic nature of relying up on signals as sexual consent.

An Open Letter to the Rapey Frat Brother and the “How to Get Laid” Generation


Jamie Utt offers the Georgia Tech student who called women “rapebait” a sex-positive view of masculinity and party culture.