The Nuances of Consent and How Some Men Are Trained to Ignore Them

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“When men are unaware of their gender privilege, boundary violations occur,” writes psychologist Sandy Peace.

Solo Polyamory: Isn’t That Just Dating?

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Psychologist Sandy Peace discusses the merits of solo polyamory and the virtues of making your romantic intentions explicit.

What Do Circumcision And Strip Mining Have In Common?

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Forcefully removing that which we have no right to remove.

How-to Guide for Dads to Talk to Sons About Women [Video]

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When it’s time for “that other talk,” these ideas could make it a little bit easier.

You’re in Charge of Your Body. I Still Get to Make Rules.

You're in Charge of Your Body. I Still Get to Make Rules.

John Kinnear loves the feminist dad shirt meme that’s been making the rounds, but wants his daughter to know that saying “she makes the rules” isn’t as simple as it sounds.

Are You Feeling Pressured? A New Way to Ask for Sexual Consent

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Jennifer Gunsaullus offers a new means for verbal consent in bed.

When I Write, I Do Not Give You Consent

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Sam Killermann has a few things he’s like to clear up about how people treat those who write on the internet. Take a moment…this might have happened to you.

“Is Circumcision Necessary and If So Why?”

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Why I Chose Not To Circumcise My Son

7 A’s of Hooking Up

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Want to know the 7 A’s of hot, consensual sex?

How To Touch Her

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Learning how to flirt and touch a woman in a way that is both consensual and sexy is a fine art. Dr. NerdLove gives guys a primer.

What Led Me to Abandon My Stay-at-Home-Dad Community

What Led Me to Abandon My Stay-at-Home-Dad Community

Brent Brookhouse joined an online stay-at-home-dad group for discussion and support, instead found a faction of fathers who railed against the stereotyping of men, while marginalizing and harassing women.

“Rape Culture” Will End When Consent Becomes Sexy

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Look out rape culture, this 22-year-old entrepreneur’s gonna take you down, one thong at a time.

“Can Women rape men? Most people think that they can’t.”

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Teaching Boys to Respect Girls

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How can we teach boys respect if we don’t give them any?

Stop Saying That You’re A Great Lover

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The title of “Great Lover” is one you earn, not one you claim for yourself. And it can take work. Very fun work.

Do You Really Wish It Had Been You?

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Rape is not sex seems like the most obvious fact in the world. Then why do we call some guys “lucky” asks Danny.