Sh*t Happens

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By sharing an upside even in his experience with cancer, David Packman reminds us that, while unpredictable, there is an innate balance in the universe — and in every life experience.

We Need Support to Get to Success

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Mike Iamele shares how support has been important to him, and how three words can keep us moving forward.

Commitments that Compete

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Aaron W. Voyles continues to explore the gap between our commitments and our action. — For several weeks, I’ve been discussing commitment and responsibility. I do so because of their connection to my work with college men. There has been a lot of talk within higher education and the media about gender-based violence, as well […]

Who Fears Paper, Who Fears Law?

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Law is nothing more than an idea on paper—what someone else believes you should, shouldn’t, can, or can’t do.

When Men Come With a Warning Label

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How can men talk about needs without women feeling controlled?

Control: The Downfall of the Masculine and the Poison of Civilization

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Lion Goodman and John Jones contend that when men unravel the need for control they will heal themselves, and the world.

The Most Important Photo on the Internet or Disinformation?

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Have you ever been caught sharing disinformation? Propaganda comes at us from every direction, even the one you support.

Discussing the Cycle of Male Verbal Abuse

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He used the same words. He used the same towering posture. This wasn’t about teaching me or guiding me to be a man. This was about control.

Stop Running For The Emergency Escape: 4 Ways To Gain Control Of Your Life

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Curbing the desire to escape can be tough, but if you build a balanced life, it can become less of a nagging desire.

Flirting With a Fantasy

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Bob Marrow makes an interesting point about age and attraction.

The Gentleman’s Guide To Proactive Sexual Consent

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Jordan Gray says that there is an easy way to be respectful and sexy at the same time. —– Throughout the majority of my sex life, I have been utterly baffled. I’ve been baffled because I have consistently received the feedback from my lovers that I make them feel supremely comfortable very quickly. And after […]

Pedestrian Etiquette, Gormless Phone Users, and the Rise of the ‘Meanderthal’

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Walking and texting—it’s not just dangerous, it’s downright rude. Isn’t it time we talked about pedestrian etiquette?

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

Skip the Façade, “Get” the Girl and “Land” the Real Prize

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Greg Dinkin has some advice for men that does not involve games of control.

Anger and the Superior Man – Is it about Gender or Personal Inadequacy?

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Graham Phoenix looks at the anger surrounding the recent shooting in the US, and explains how it all relates to an expression of personal inadequacy.

As a Young Man, Do You Spend More Time Creating or Consuming?

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There is risk in spending too much time consuming others’ works and missing out on the creation of something which advances our life or the world of those around us.