The Most Important Photo on the Internet or Disinformation?

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Have you ever been caught sharing disinformation? Propaganda comes at us from every direction, even the one you support.

Discussing the Cycle of Male Verbal Abuse

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He used the same words. He used the same towering posture. This wasn’t about teaching me or guiding me to be a man. This was about control.

Stop Running For The Emergency Escape: 4 Ways To Gain Control Of Your Life

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Curbing the desire to escape can be tough, but if you build a balanced life, it can become less of a nagging desire.

Flirting With a Fantasy

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Bob Marrow makes an interesting point about age and attraction.

The Gentleman’s Guide To Proactive Sexual Consent

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Jordan Gray says that there is an easy way to be respectful and sexy at the same time. —– Throughout the majority of my sex life, I have been utterly baffled. I’ve been baffled because I have consistently received the feedback from my lovers that I make them feel supremely comfortable very quickly. And after […]

Pedestrian Etiquette, Gormless Phone Users, and the Rise of the ‘Meanderthal’

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Walking and texting—it’s not just dangerous, it’s downright rude. Isn’t it time we talked about pedestrian etiquette?

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

Skip the Façade, “Get” the Girl and “Land” the Real Prize

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Greg Dinkin has some advice for men that does not involve games of control.

Anger and the Superior Man – Is it about Gender or Personal Inadequacy?

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Graham Phoenix looks at the anger surrounding the recent shooting in the US, and explains how it all relates to an expression of personal inadequacy.

As a Young Man, Do You Spend More Time Creating or Consuming?

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There is risk in spending too much time consuming others’ works and missing out on the creation of something which advances our life or the world of those around us.

Just Relax: How Men Can Be More Effective Problem-Solvers

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Dillan DiGiovanni suggests a more effective way for men to help someone in distress.

Sex and Control – How I Experienced My Dark Energy

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Graham Phoenix gets goosebumps just thinking about sex. It’s so important to get it right, because so much flows from the balance between sex and control.

True Equality

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Vaughan Granier thinks the marriages that are happiest for both spouses give some serious thought to equality and control.

The Lesson of the Wall: Why My Anger Looked Different to Me from The Inside Than It Did on the Outside

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Graham Phoenix often felt the urge to exert control, the need to get people to listen to him. What happened to him when he resorted to violence to be in charge?

Letting Go Of Control Can Be The Healthiest Thing

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This short film teaches us that nature knows best and that the wild and powerful spirit of the wolf has the power to heal as well as to kill.

How I Learned to Stop Fearing Anger and Love My Wife

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Jeff Billig looks at anger from a variety of ways and comes to the conclusion, “it’s not so bad.”