It’s Time to Rethink Seduction

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Kitty Cavalier says men should bring a keen awareness and willingness to play this game of life with partners, kids, even colleagues.

Dear John: She Wants Him To Have An Affair

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A chronic illness prompts a proposal for an affair, a girlfriend who won’t quit smoking, and a friend who stole a work project.

Dear John: Boyfriend’s Sexy Talk A Total Turnoff

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A guy saying suggestive things in front of her son, a coworker who got mailed pot, and a couple on opposite ends of the political spectrum.

Dear John: My Co-Worker Makes Me Feel Dirty

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A germaphobe coworker, a boyfriend who used to see escorts, and a regretful past of bullying.

Dear John: Love Her, Hate Her Rhode Island Accent

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An irritating accent, a coworker constantly staring at cleavage, and a confusion about a friend’s expectations.

“I think about this a lot with coworkers: would I find this person as offensive if she were a man?”

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This is a comment by wellokaythen on the post “‘He’s a Boss, She’s a Bitch'”.

Dear John: Looking Not So Good

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Dear John addresses straying eyes, advances from a friend’s ex, and a coworker who stole all the credit.

Dear John: Relationships 101

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This week Dear John addresses a student/teacher relationship, an eavesdropping boss, and an old flame.

“Having a perfect career looked great on the outside. But was the stress worth the 5 heart attacks?”

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This is a comment by Tom B on the post “Odd Jobbing”.

Dear John: Nosy Coworker Smells Booze

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This week Dear John addresses a boozy colleague, a socially aggressive wife, and meds for chronic depression.

The Fear of Death

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It’s not just the fear of being judged, but the fear of our inevitable death that paralyzes us.

Dear John: Will Third Time Be Charm for Cursed Relationship?

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This week Dear John addresses third chances, a homophobic boss, and the sudden appearance of a toupee.

Dear John: Ex Boyfriend. Current Boss.

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Dear John addresses questions about awkward coworker relationships, dating your sibling’s ex, and spousal spending binges.