Stop the Presses! I’m A Straight Dude and I Love Being Spooned


When it comes to spooning, sometimes you just want to be on the inside.

How To Get Your Partner To Initiate Sex More Often


Jordan Gray says that, when it comes to wanting your partner to initiate sex more often, people are often asking the wrong question.

This Dad Just Can’t — He Has To Hold The Baby


Dad Jeremy just can’t — whatever you are asking him to do. He has to hold the baby. Here is why.

5 Powerful Ideas You Can Use For Valentine’s Day

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Jordan Gray gives you five powerful ideas that you can totally steal for Valentine’s Day.

5 Scientific Reasons Why Guys Who Cuddle Are Healthier And Happier

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The next time someone asks, “Wanna cuddle?”, you might want to give it a try.

Guys: 7 Reasons You Should Embrace Cuddling


Author Amanda Chatel shares seven of the amazing benefits of cuddling, proving that it has many positive effects on your body and relationship.

5 Ways Cuddling Makes Us Healthier

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Touch releases oxytocin, which makes us feel better. But can hugging make us better human beings?

Libido Challenged? Try a Daily Dose of Sex


A wife makes a deal with her husband to try having sex every day for 20 days.

“I used to be convinced that ‘real men’ should only want sex and hate cuddling, kissing, and talking about love.”


Men, there are a lot of things that society tells you that you should want. Do you want those things? Or do you want something more, something different?

Dear John: He’s Not Homophobic; He’s Boring-Phobic


Dear John talks about a gay friend, a boyfriend who flees the bed after sex, and a gender-bending boy spending vacation with grandpa.

Sexual Pain and Sexual Healing


Sexual pain is a common—and commonly misunderstood—burden, but there are proper ways of alleviating it. And they all involve a human touch.

“The more I watch porn, the more I crave sex with real women.”


These are comments by John, Hank Vandenburgh, and Garrett A. Brown on the post “Men and Pornography: 10/20”.

“Love does not mean: ‘Your partner magically knows how to please you.'”


This is a comment by Æther on the post “What Women Don’t Tell You”.

The Secret to an Amazing Hook Up


Start the conversation with the right question, and be open to the answer.

“One more false dichotomy: you either cuddle to cuddle, or you ONLY see it as a way to get sex.”


This is a comment by wellokaythen on the post “I Refuse to Believe That Men Like Cuddling”.

I Refuse to Believe That Men Like Cuddling

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Lynn Beisner wonders if the men who say they like to cuddle are simply doing it to please their wives or girlfriends.