Living in Monogamish County

Non-Monogamy, Open Marriage, Polyamorous Marriage, Untraditional Marriages, Poly Relationships, Multiple Sexual Partners

N Likes explains how non-monogamy saved his marriage

Wisdom. For All of Us.

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JJ Vincent wants to share a message from people who fought to be who they are, and who know that “It Gets Better”.

Introducing the Not All Like That (NALT) Christians Project

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John Shore, along with many others, present Not All Like That, a website were Progressive Christians can voice their support for the LGBTQ community.

Stand up. Be visible. Contribute to the solution.

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Kile Ozier knows how risky it is to come out as gay, but he believes it’s time to close the (r)evolutionary gap.

The Danger in Demonizing Male Sexuality

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Alyssa Royse explains how our current predator/prey model of sexual relationships is harmful to both men and women.

Studies Show It Does Get Better for Gay Teens

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Research shows bullying of gay and bisexual boys continues beyond high school at higher rates than it does for girls. Why is this?

Are Gay Men Less Stressed Because They Don’t Have to Prove They’re Straight?


A surprising study, a popular sex writer, and a daring hypothesis.

Dan Savage and Terry Miller Legally Married At Last

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Washington state legally recognizes same-sex marriage.

Ten Signs She Is The One

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Somebody who cares for you wants to you succeed…even if it means tough love.

On Withholding Sex

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Joanna Schroeder offers a practical guideline to couples who are challenged with mis-matched libidos.

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships


Why can’t we love one another like we used to?

Trigger Warning: I’m About to Talk About Trigger Warnings

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Joanna Schroeder explores the overuse of the term “Trigger Warning” in the blogosphere, and wonders whether the term actually serves to undermine the security of trauma survivors.

Some Can’t-Miss Sex Advice!


“There’s nothing wrong with putting yourself on the ‘naughty’ list as you practice some fun new fantasies.”

Ten Things I’ve Learned From Having ‘Queer’ Friends


I was taught that the word “queer” has been re-appropriated as a sort of catch-all for any sexuality that is not “heteronormative”. But since normal doesn’t really exist, then we’re all a bit queer!

Dan Savage Calls Bullsh** On The Bible

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Dan Savage stands by his statement that anti-gay passages in The Bible are bullish**.

Men and Their Inner Goat

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Bettina Arndt discusses “the vexed business of accommodating male and female sexual needs.”