Leveling Up in Dating: Standing Out (The Right Way)

Never let it be said that I don’t wear my nerd cred on my metaphorical sleeves.

Dr. NerdLove takes a look at how, with the right outfit, you can separate yourself from the herd.

The Virgin’s Guide to Great Sex

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Surprise! A virgin can actually be better prepared for great sex than many of his or her more precocious peers.

My Girlfriend Denies Facebook-Stalking Her Ex

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help when he suspects his girlfriend is Facebook-stalking her ex.

7 Pitfalls to Avoid When Dating a Sexual Assault Survivor

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Sarah Beaulieu struggled to find the right way to tell people she was a sexual assault survivor. Here’s how you can support loved ones who open up about sexual assault.

Your Dealbreakers Are Getting in Your Way

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Terri Trespicio believes that something which started as a way of establishing standards has turned into a way people keep themselves from being open to new people and experiences.

5 Reasons to Wait 30 Days for Sex

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We concern ourselves with getting dating right, but why are so many of us failing to find intimate life partners?

How to Get a Second Date (By Acing the First)

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Doctor NerdLove offers a play-by-play guide for showing off your best self on a first date.

How to Survive a Dating Emergency

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What could go wrong on a first date? Just about everything. Don’t worry, Dr. Nerdlove’s got you covered.

Dear John: Cheapskate Dates

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Dear John advises on cheap dates, taped sex without consent, and a friend torn between religion and honesty.

Dating Short Cuts and Magic Bullets

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Doctor NerdLove challenges the myth of quick-fix dating and relationship advice.

How to Date Me: A Field Guide for Men

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Confidential to the guy who’s asking Amie Longmire out on a date: she wants you to succeed at dating her. Here’s how.

Boys in the Friend Zone

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How can we mentor boys in dating and relationship skills?

How to Attract Women

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Mark Sherman, a man long out of the game, presents some (mostly) humorous advice for single guys.

My Girlfriend Blacked Out, Then Dumped Me

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A guy who was dumped after his girlfriend blacked out wants Eli and Josie’s help in figuring out what is going on with her.

Dr. NerdLove’s Guide to the Successful Approach

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Dr. Nerdlove gives a step-by-step breakdown of how to successfully approach women in public.

Online Dating 101: How to Cut the BS and Keep it Real

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“So let’s not kid ourselves. We’re just two lonely people. We’re so desperate for quality human interaction that we’ll even employ a machine to help us find it.”