Dear John Harvard: A Plea to Stop the ‘Second Rape’ That Follows Campus Sexual Assaults

A Call to Stop by Wikimedia

A student’s anonymous letter, ‘Dear Harvard: You Win,’ and a law lecturer’s stinging follow-up underscore why Harvard must fight fiercely for affirmative consent.

Where Is the Line Between Love and Control? (Video)

Where Is the Line by loveisrespect

Watch a teenage boy on the phone with his girlfriend cross the line from friendly and concerned to controlling and abusive.

Embracing Destruction

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Kwame Harris is Charged With Felony Domestic Violence


Liam Day believes that Kwame Harris’ case offers us a glimpse behind the male stereotype shrouding both gay athletes and male victims of domestic violence.

It Turns Out Jovan Belcher and Kasandra Perkins Weren’t Fighting Over Paternity


Reports of a fight over little Zoey’s paternity have been denied. Liam Day deconstructs them for the journalistic problems they expose.

What if Jovan Belcher’s Friends Spoke Up?


Jovan Belcher and Kassandra Perkins were in an abusive relationship. Almost no one said anything.

We Don’t Talk: Jovan Belcher and Kasandra Perkins


Liam Day wonders if the tragedy in Kansas City was a part of society’s expectations that men be strong and silent.

Should 11 Year Olds Be Given Dating-Violence Prevention?


Eric Henney is horrified to learn that dating violence – against both boys and girls – begins as young as age 11, and hopes anti-violence education will soon catch up to the younger trend.