Changing Your Perspective on Money Conflicts

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We do not have a money problem in America. We have a values and priorities problem

Adolescent Humiliation

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Andy Bodle fights and flees the pecking order.

How Teens Drink

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Before the energy drink slash cocktail and butt-chugging, there was “The Watermelon Crawl” and “Mr. Boston’s.”

Fuzzy Bunny’s Guide To You-Know-What

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Steve Coruzzi’s sex education was woefully incomplete.

The Friend Zone (or, How “Jerks” Are Made)

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Carlo Alcos wonders why guys think entering the friend zone is a failure.

Sleeping Together: The Good Life’s Top Ten in March

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Readers of The Good Life flock to the truth about sleeping together, and what we really want from women.

What Does It Mean to Be a Man? U of Calgary Students Respond

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How do students feel about manhood and masculinity today?

Dear John: My Co-Worker Makes Me Feel Dirty

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A germaphobe coworker, a boyfriend who used to see escorts, and a regretful past of bullying.

First Crush

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When Andy Bodle’s first feelings of love were not returned in kind, he succumbed to desperation.

What Men Really Want

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Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

Do Men Not Like Women Who Wear Cardigans?

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Brittany H. wants to hear it from the guys. Is she single because she wears cardigans — as a sign she is safe, predictable, practical — instead of, say, tube tops?

Confessions of a Call Girl Client

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After Andy Bodle spent thousands of dollars on escorts he met online, he had one more powerful desire left unfulfilled

Guestpost #92: Shaun Chatman – Ten Things I’ve Learned About How Too Much Technology Can Complicate Our Lives

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Technology is supposed to make life easier, and in some ways it certainly has done that. Here are 10 things guestblogger Shaun Chatman has learned about how too much technology can complicate our lives.

Stop Waiting for Things to Get Better

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Face it: Oprah’s not calling, and not much will change in your life without taking different action.

The Year of Drinking Dangerously

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Sintong Gaspari doesn’t want to be a part of gay culture. But he doesn’t want to be alone, either.

Dear John: Love Her, Hate Her Rhode Island Accent

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An irritating accent, a coworker constantly staring at cleavage, and a confusion about a friend’s expectations.