So Long, Jack

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Mark Ellis says goodbye to his family’s aptly-named Jack Russell terrier.

A Valentine for Karen

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Andrew Cotto remembers the wife of an old friend.

Love Survives

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Tom Matlack talks to photographer Ron Cowie about enduring love, unspeakable loss, and staying present when life falls apart.

Between My Father and Me

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Joseph Pereira’s father can’t hold him anymore, but that doesn’t matter.

The Fear of Visiting My Grandparents’ Graves

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Atalwin Pilon experiences some mixed feelings as he visits the burial place of his grandparents.

#27: Lobster Pots

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“It’s the kind of human suffering for which there is no answer, only witness.”

How Do You Prepare for the Loss of a Loved One?

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You can’t, writes Mervyn Kaufman.

Seven Years Gone: Manhood, My Mother’s Death, and 100 Dates

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As a part of Evan Barden’s “One Hundred Dates” project, he reflects on the seven years following his mother’s death, what it’s meant to be a mama’s boy, and how it all influences his relationships with women.

The Human Condition

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Jason Silva dissects the human condition, death anxiety, and the three solutions to the problem of death according to Ernest Becker.

Dear John: I Thought I Was Straight

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Why do I have feelings for another man if I’m straight? Should I tell my friend they ruined my wedding? How do I let people know my husband passed away?

The Things Men Carry

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Gary Percesepe learned how to be a man by observing other men.

The Day I Realized I Could Die

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How an almost near death experience is all you need for a good dose of perspective and realization.

The Day My Father Died

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He might be gone, but Collin Slattery hopes his father would be proud of the man he’s trying to become.

The 30th Anniversary of AIDS

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With the passing of another International AIDS Day, Robert Levithan reflects on his experience.

Insurance

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“When I pulled into my father’s driveway, the car’s headlights illuminated him standing behind his work table, his Labrador, Scotty, stretched across the table’s surface.” By John Warner

Tarkio Balloon

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What’s it like to lose your two-month-old brother? Torben Bernhard wants to show you.