“Use porn to learn where the important parts are and to enjoy watching, but not as a guide to normal bedroom conduct.”

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These are comments by Dr. Adam Sheck, Damien, and FQuattrone on the post “5 Unrealistic Sex Moves Men Learn from Watching Porn”.

Would the Buddha Look at Porn?

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On the question of porn, Buddhist American Keith Andresen is torn between culture and faith.

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One man’s pleasureland is another man’s nightmare.

“Every man can recall a moment of shame and self-loathing when he lowered himself to sake his lust.”

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This is a comment by Random_Stranger on the post “Cracked.com on Misogyny”.

Nice Guys Part Four: Ozy Forgets Post Titles And Noah Can’t Count

Warning: this is really long. This is what happens when you have multiple 200+ comment threads that crystallize all kinds of awesome new ideas for me. The majority of Nice Guys™ (once again, used gender-inclusively) are suffering from a common delusion: that the dating world is even remotely logical. Unfortunately, this is not true. I’m [...]

Getting Off Part One: Male Sexuality as Degrading

Trigger warning for mentions of rape. Moderation Note: In this thread, please refer to the ideas of “Jensen” or “sex-negative feminists,” not the ideas of “feminists” or “the feminist movement.” Sex-positive feminism has been a major force in the feminist movement for several decades now and it’s a bit silly to erase us.   I have recently [...]