When She Says It’s Over It’s Over

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Better to accept reality than become The Thing That Wouldn’t Leave.

It’s Finally Over. Why Am I So Surprised?: Scenes From a Divorce, Part 1

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Steven Axelrod, with part one of a seven part series from the front lines of modern divorce.

“From personal experience, I’ve had no problem integrating my abuse into my happy and fulfilling life.”

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This Comment of the Day was by Cornelius Walker on the post Are Victims Obligated to Tell Their Stories a Certain Way?

I Can Finally Say I Am Proud to Be a Man

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A lifetime of homophobia had beaten down Larry Best, but with the help of a friend, he has regained pride in his manhood.

Mental Toughness Has Nothing to Do with Being a Hardass

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Learn the difference between mastery and suppression of your feelings.

The Phases of a Break-Up

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Josh Bowman shares the many phases of a break-up.

Are American Churches As Racist As My Mom?

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Fear is what we feel, denial is what we do, and defensiveness is how we do it.

Why Can’t My Ex-Husband Talk About Our Son’s Psychiatric Disorder?

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Part of loving a person with a psychiatric disorder, writes Pauline Gaines, is acknowledging that the disorder is real.

Darkness Falling

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On spending years dealing with depression every way other than dealing with it.

Liberals and Conservatives: Ideology over Science

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What you believe should be true limits what you are willing to believe is true.

“Withholding sex as a weapon IS abuse.”

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This is a comment by Archy on the post “Withholding Sex is Not a Joke”.

Eating Sushi at Stoplights

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Caring for his mother through treatment for a brain tumor, David Olimpio finds odd comforts in a city he used to call home.

Men, Strength, and Death

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True strength does not require denial of reality, but suppleness in meeting it.

The Man Behind the Mask

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What keeps men from sharing their feelings—until it’s too late? Psychotherapist Stephanie Morgan explores the Boy Code through Rick Belden’s poetry.

Cancer: 8/18

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Survivors wanted: men’s stories of cancer.

Sometimes a Train-Wreck is Just a Train-Wreck

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Abuse survivor Rob Brown reports what life is like from deep inside his recovery.