The Messages I Learned to Tell Myself

Uncomfortable. Irritated. Hateful. But whatever happened to supportive?

For This Man, a Song Wasn’t Just a Song

It took a song sent from his ex-girlfriend for Jerome Bwire to confront to reason why he wasn’t able to form relationships and move on to a happier life.

Playboy Drops The Nudes: Is Porn Dying?

Are we watching porn burn out or just the death of print pornography and its male pioneers?

What Causes Narcissism? An Expert Opinion

Ross Rosenberg, author of “The Human Magnet Syndrome,” explains the childhood origins of pathological narcissism.

I Tick Every Macho Box. How Could I Be Gay?

A rugby player found himself confronting more than one stereotype in his own mind as he struggles with coming out.

Finding Value in the Pain of Your Divorce

Katie Vessel says you have to feel the hurt of divorce to learn—and heal—from it.

A Dad’s Advice to Jim Bob Duggar: You Can’t Fix It If You Deny It Exists

Today, two dads have some input for the Duggar parents. In the first, dad Matt Sweetwood speaks father to patriarch with some solid wisdom.

Money And Relationship: Navigating Dangerous Waters

When you have money problems, you are going to have relationship problems – count on it.

The Five Stages of Grief and Loss in Divorce

When a marriage dies and sadness hits, it’s the sadness that will heal you.

First Impressions: Why We Keep Our Real Selves Hidden When We Meet New People

Meeting someone for the first time is like meeting yourself all over again.

A Gay Dad Sounds Off On the Abuse and Lies in TLC’s “My Husband is Not Gay”

TLC launched the sensational “Not Gay” show about “same sex attracted” men marrying straight women. Media focused on the plight of the men. Rob Watson thinks the real focus needs to be the damage to the women they married.

When She Says It’s Over It’s Over

Better to accept reality than become The Thing That Wouldn’t Leave.

It’s Finally Over. Why Am I So Surprised?: Scenes From a Divorce, Part 1

Steven Axelrod, with part one of a seven part series from the front lines of modern divorce.

“From personal experience, I’ve had no problem integrating my abuse into my happy and fulfilling life.”

This Comment of the Day was by Cornelius Walker on the post Are Victims Obligated to Tell Their Stories a Certain Way?

I Can Finally Say I Am Proud to Be a Man

A lifetime of homophobia had beaten down Larry Best, but with the help of a friend, he has regained pride in his manhood.

Mental Toughness Has Nothing to Do with Being a Hardass

Learn the difference between mastery and suppression of your feelings.