The Simple Way A Man Let Go And Found Himself

His internal dam has been broken up, but it still stands within him. How does Jonathan Delavan break through the rest?

How To Make Sense Of The Rage You Feel When Your Ex Moves On

Why do we always want what we can’t have?

Look for Someone You Admire, Not Someone You Think You Need

Ray Jennings redefines what we should look for in a life partner.

9 Ways You Know Your Sex Is Exceptional

Rather than some straight line to a destination, think of exceptional sex more like a pot of home-made soup and how it gets more flavorful, aromatic and nutritious with each added ingredient and spice.

How Do You Talk With Your Partner About Sex?

Sex educator Kait Scalisi says embrace the awkward and ask for what you want with these easy tips.

The Geography of Desire

Cabot O’Callaghan sees his love everywhere—except where he actually is.

Driving the Beast Away

R.G. Evans offers a poignant meditation on manhood, aging, and libido.

Viewing Vintage Porn

By turns wistful, by turns puckish, David Bergman’s tribute to gay adult film of yesteryear is a fun twist on the language of nostalgia.

3 Things Nobody Taught Me About Sex When I Was a Young Man

They’re NOT the things I learned in sex-ed class.

Two Seconds

Kris Bigalk creates eros in few words and a simple gesture.

The Lost World Of Male Desire

Why do we fear male desire? It has achieved so much in the past, yet now it is a thing of shame.

How to Teach Children About Desire

Stephen Scott Whitaker raises the uncomfortable yet important subject of one’s children’s burgeoning sexuality.

Nowhere to Go

Allen Fraser Clark captures the frustration and desire of young men, eager for sexual expression and frightened by it.

Extreme Sports Getting More Extreme: Are You Feeling The Flow?

Is the constant boundary pushing in extreme sports a dangerous manifestation of a crisis of masculinity, or something much more interesting?

When You Feel Attraction But Don’t Want Action

Trish Everett offers an innovative way to deal with desire we don’t want to act on: the attraction contract.

11 Feelings You Didn’t Know You Could Have Until You Fell In Love

Being in love was both the greatest and most horrible experience in my life. It made me feel in ways I didn’t think were possible to feel.