Marriage Struggles: The Partner With The Least Desire Controls Sex

We mix up sex, intimacy and desire with disastrous results. Kyle Benson guides us through this slippery topic.


Desire awakens

Tired Of A Sexless Marriage? Here’s One Way To Change It Instantly

Are you serious? I have to plan for sex! Kyle Benson tells us why this is important . . . if you want your relationship to succeed.

Old ’89

In tight couplets, John Trigonis writes of desire, car wrecks, desperation, and Superbowl XLII.

Overcoming the Personality Struggles That Push My Partner Away

What do you do when you’re pushing away the person you love even though you realize what you’re doing?

Night Sweats

Mark Ward offers two–or is it three?–interweaving narratives of queer desire in this poem.

A Powerful, Proven Way to Get What You Want

Achieving what you truly want doesn’t have to be a lonely marathon when you have the power of others at your disposal…

Tom Petty’s Brilliant Lyrics Tell A Free Fallin’ Guy Story

Author Jay Cradeur explores themes of a man’s life with the words of poet warrior musician Tom Petty (with video links).

Five Simple Things Every Partner Wants From Their Man

Author Jay Cradeur shares a few tips on attracting a partner and creating an environment in which they can thrive.

7 Important Qualities Women Want In A Man

James Michael Sama lays down a pretty simple list.

The Simple Way A Man Let Go And Found Himself

His internal dam has been broken up, but it still stands within him. How does Jonathan Delavan break through the rest?

How To Make Sense Of The Rage You Feel When Your Ex Moves On

Why do we always want what we can’t have?

Look for Someone You Admire, Not Someone You Think You Need

Ray Jennings redefines what we should look for in a life partner.

9 Ways You Know Your Sex Is Exceptional

Rather than some straight line to a destination, think of exceptional sex more like a pot of home-made soup and how it gets more flavorful, aromatic and nutritious with each added ingredient and spice.

How Do You Talk With Your Partner About Sex?

Sex educator Kait Scalisi says embrace the awkward and ask for what you want with these easy tips.

The Geography of Desire

Cabot O’Callaghan sees his love everywhere—except where he actually is.