Me Jane, You Tarzan: The Politics of Sexual Polarity

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Lori Ann Lothian wants to know if she’s wrong for wanting to be ‘ravished’.

Can We Be More Than Just Friends with Benefits?

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Could we make a serious relationship work after all this time?

Why We Crave Porn

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Although we treat porn as a commodity, it is actually a deeply desired human interaction.

Five Sex Tips for Women About Men

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Connecting with a man sexually can be as simple as making him feel wanted, says Laurie Watson.

“The more I watch porn, the more I crave sex with real women.”

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These are comments by John, Hank Vandenburgh, and Garrett A. Brown on the post “Men and Pornography: 10/20″.

The Smoking Ruins of Your Sexual-Romantic Life

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Life with children calls for compromises, but it can’t keep you from making love.

Life Lessons from Football

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Everyone has a plan until they get hit, and other lessons.

Sex Is the Word

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Online news reports compete for our clicks with entertainment. Are we less well informed than ever?

“Drop the idea that sex is supposed to work out by magic.”

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This is a comment by Lars Fisher on the post “10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Porn”.

Bisexual, Pansexual, Born or Made?

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A survivor of childhood sexual abuse knows bisexuality is real, but wonders if he was born this way or made.

Doubly Blessed

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Travis Mamone is bisexual and beloved.

“Men in particular have been tasked with accepting, embodying, and living contradiction.”

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This is a comment by Peter von Maidenberg on the post “Society wants dads to ‘step up’, but they are literally stomped down when they do.”

“Your sexual activity does not make you a man. Things like compassion, honor, and honesty do.”

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Æther talks about how to start having the kind of sex you want while attracting the kind of partners you want.

I Thought You Were Like a Ken Doll

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Is a man who is a virgin not really a man?

In Praise of Large-Minded Women

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Mark Radcliffe regrets his recklessness in writing on a delicate subject. For this essay, he redirects the focus to the most attractive of a woman’s attributes: her mind.

The Way of Men: Interview with Jack Donovan

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“The Way of Men” book author Jack Donovan answers some hard questions about masculinity and society, and the way forward for men.