Manufacturing Content

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Contentedness comes naturally, in the absence of manufactured desire. But getting back to that natural state might take some work.

Letting Go Of Desires

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Leo Babauta on freeing yourself.

Why We Must Move Beyond Condoms and into Cultures of Desire

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“Messages that focus solely on condom use do not engage with the psychological and social issues that inflame people’s desires to engage in risk-taking behaviour,” writes Angelus Morningstar.

Why Not Knowing What You Want Will Get You What You DON’T Want

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Coach and Author, Dixie Gillaspie, challenges us to make decisions out of our vision of long-term results rather than defaulting to what is expected or what feels good right now!

25 Killer Actions to Boost Your Self-Confidence

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Our favorite lifestyle guru Leo Babauta returns with tips on how to develop self confidence

10 Awesome Things Atheists Want for Christmas*

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Have an Atheist around and don’t know what to get them for the Holidays? Fear not, Doug Zeigler has 10 suggestions to help you out.

Unconventional People Need Love Too

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We can’t keep thinking that one size fits all when it comes to romance.

Are We Too Obsessed With Unraveling the Mystery of What Women Want in a Male Partner?

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Steve LaFond breaks down some of the confusing societal reasons that men think,”All women want this.”

“Men who enjoy more and higher quality sex have one thing in common. They don’t NEED it and they don’t try to GET it.”

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This comment of the day was by Steve Horsmon on the post The Unbelievable Secret to Getting More Sex

5 Ways “Taking Space” Can Aid Your Marriage

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The benefits of taking some time off for one’s self in a relationship.

What We Argue About

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Daiva Markelis demonstrates why a little arguing can be good for a couple in the long run.

The Difference Between Want and Need

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Why should a man clean his toilet rather than play video games?

Wishes for My Daughters

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What Pete Wilgoren wants for his girls when they grow up can be summed up in one word.

Muslim Mosh Pit

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Young American men have sanctioned outlets for rage and rebellion their counterparts in conservative Islam do not.

Food (In)security

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Food security begins at home.