“Wanting to cuddle on the couch is not proof men are more physically needy.”

photo by elvissa

“Dating sites are loaded with men who list among their desires “cuddling on the sofa with a movie…” or similar.”

The Conversation: Let’s Talk About Race, Again

james harden

Andrew Cotto and Damon Young continue their wide-ranging discussion about race, America, and the NBA.

Treating the Hate

hate

Sometimes the antidote is sitting right next to the poison.

“There simply is no other forum for a thoughtful discussion of manhood.”

HA0512. M25 Bell Common tunnel Ministerial Completion Ceremony, March 2010

This comment is from Mervyn Kaufman, on the post The Atlantic and GMP

Can Both Sides of the Gender Debate Get Along?

angry

Andrew Bruskin thinks so.

When Angry Commenters Find Common Ground

photo by mikemol

Joanna Schroeder and David Bryon thought they’d never get past their differences as commenters. Now, as friendly allies, they discuss how they got there.

That’s How We All Survive

image by jikan

Jackie Summers weighs in on the conversation about good men.

Circle of Fire: Egalitarian Feminists, Come Forth

fire

Tim Pylypiuk wants this to be another safe haven for reasoned discussion.

Man Talk

photo by crazyflyinmidget

What do men really talk about and is it okay to be honest about that?

Where Are the Lines Between Sex and Rape?

rape:sex

Wherever they are, Julie Gillis writes, we need to make them clearer.

The End of Feminism (as I Knew It)

feminism

If you say you’re for equality, Valter Viglietti writes, then you’re for everyone’s equality.

The Desire of Fear

Glass__Fear_by_Raingarden

We’re scared to have our opinions challenged, Jackie Summers writes, but we need to keep having the conversations.

The God of Gender Wars Is Laughing

fire

If you can’t get past the anger, Megan Rosker writes, nothing will change.

The Problem With ‘Isms’

3405399498_64838f05b8_z

When we have a conversation about gender, C.W. Nahumck writes, we are often set up to fail before we even begin.

“In the Beginning, It Was About Storytelling”

Tom Matlack replies to commenters on his own post, “The Feminist I Used to Know”

The Feminist I Used to Know

Tom Masked

The Good Men Project started with the goal of empathy. Empathy for other men. Tom Matlack hopes that today’s feminists can understand that.