Where Are the Lines Between Sex and Rape?

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Wherever they are, Julie Gillis writes, we need to make them clearer.

The End of Feminism (as I Knew It)

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If you say you’re for equality, Valter Viglietti writes, then you’re for everyone’s equality.

The Desire of Fear

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We’re scared to have our opinions challenged, Jackie Summers writes, but we need to keep having the conversations.

The God of Gender Wars Is Laughing

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If you can’t get past the anger, Megan Rosker writes, nothing will change.

The Problem With ‘Isms’

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When we have a conversation about gender, C.W. Nahumck writes, we are often set up to fail before we even begin.

“In the Beginning, It Was About Storytelling”

Tom Matlack replies to commenters on his own post, “The Feminist I Used to Know”

The Feminist I Used to Know

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The Good Men Project started with the goal of empathy. Empathy for other men. Tom Matlack hopes that today’s feminists can understand that.

“The Unreasonable Man”

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This comment, from MediaHound to Liz was on the post “As Equals and as Friends: Amanda Marcotte’s reply to Tom Matlack.”

Are We an Online Cocktail Party?

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Uncle Woofie explains why he came to the Good Men Project—and why he’s sticking around.

“There *is* no ‘Us’ and ‘Them’. There is only Us.”

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DMcCunney, in response to the post Seven Guidelines for a Healthier Debate on Gender

Seven Guidelines for a Healthier Debate on Gender

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Peter Houlihan, with some “Rules for Rationality”, to help facilitate more civil discussions around gender issues

“Can you imagine how degraded the culture would be if it were populated by men who founded men’s websites dedicated to men asking themselves how to be better men?”

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This comment by Michael Rowe was in reply to Tom Matlack’s post “Being a Dude is a Good Thing.”

How We Stop Being Defensive and Learn To Talk About Difficult Subjects

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Julie Gillis meditates on lessons from Jay Smooth on how we should talk about the things we need to talk about.

Penn State: What Are We Talking About?

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We’re an offender-obsessed society, L. Edward Day writes, and that needs to change.

Jerry Sandusky and Penn State: A Familiar Story

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Whatever the circumstances, Sophia Sadinsky writes, dealing with sexual violence should be a collective effort.

“As a Man, What Are You Ashamed of Most?”

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We asked our community. This is how they replied.