What I Wish I Knew Before My First Relationship

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The best part of never having had a girlfriend is that you get to start from the beginning, with a few bits of wisdom from Dr. NerdLove to help you along.

The Myth of What Women Want

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Dr. NerdLove debunks every myth you’ve ever read about what women want, and proposes a simple and effective alternative.

Recovering From Relationship Failure

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Dr. NerdLove reminds guys that even if your relationship fails, YOU are not a failure.

5 Rules To Make Dating Easier On Yourself

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Dr. Nerdlove simplifies the scary process of dating in five simple tips.

5 Times When You Shouldn’t Approach Women

“Hey! Hey, beautiful, can I ask you something? Hey, hold up…”

Yes, it’s scary to approach someone, but sometimes it’s scarier being approached. Dr. Nerdlove gives five examples of when to steer clear of making advances.

How to Deal With Jealousy – A Guide for Guys

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Jealousy isn’t just feeling possessive. Dr. NerdLove investigates the role of self-esteem and masculine identity in how jealous we become.

Building Attraction: What Matters More – Looks or Personality?

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Yes, there’s actually science in the debate about whether personality or looks matter more. Dr. NerdLove explains.

The “Problem” with Male Virginity

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Dr. NerdLove talks about the problems with the way we think about male virginity…and how to fix our toxic thinking.

What Can One Man’s Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships?

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Having an open relationship isn’t as simple as it may seem… Dr. NerdLove breaks down one man’s mistake to help us all learn.

The Surprising Need For Male Intimacy

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Harris O’Malley explains the ways in which real, true friends can not only make you happier, but can greatly improve your health.

The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive

…although I expect to get an “Eye-f*** your way into her pants” marketing email any day now.

Yeah, we know being attractive matters in dating. But did you know there is a LOT you can do to increase your appeal? Dr. NerdLove explains.

5 Times When You Should NOT Be Dating

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Dr. NerdLove helps guys get better at dating… but even he agrees there are times you should just be alone.

How To Be An Amazing Kisser

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Dr. NerdLove offers a primer on how to ace one of the most important moments in a new relationship.

How To Touch Her

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Learning how to flirt and touch a woman in a way that is both consensual and sexy is a fine art. Dr. NerdLove gives guys a primer.

Being Socially Awkward Is Not An Excuse

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Dr. NerdLove explains that it’s not bad to be socially awkward, but it IS bad to refuse to respect people’s boundaries and use social awkwardness as an excuse.

Yes, You CAN Ace the ‘Defining the Relationship’ Talk

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Dr. NerdLove helps guys with the dreaded DTR talk, and explains it’s only dreaded because most guys haven’t learned how to do it correctly.