Where Do You Get Your Validation?

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Where and how you get your validation can be a huge influence in how you interact with the people around you.

Dump Your Toxic Friends

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We spend a lot of time examining and looking out for toxic relationships but give very little consideration to the possibility that we have toxic friends.

Why Sexual Compatibility Matters to Long-Term Love

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So you and your new fling have heat… but do you have the type of compatibility that supports a lasting relationship? Dr. NerdLove explains.

How to Maintain a Casual (Romantic) Relationship

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You may not be interested in commitment, and that’s totally fine. Dr. NerdLove explains how you can maintain a respectful casual relationship.

Can You Be An Ethical Pickup Artist?

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Yes, meeting women can be hard. But the coerciveness of the nature of pick up artist is all wrong.

How to Stop Fighting (and Start Making Up)

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Dr. NerdLove comes clean about every relationship’s dirty little secret.

What I Wish I Knew Before My First Relationship

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The best part of never having had a girlfriend is that you get to start from the beginning, with a few bits of wisdom from Dr. NerdLove to help you along.

The Myth of What Women Want

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Dr. NerdLove debunks every myth you’ve ever read about what women want, and proposes a simple and effective alternative.

Recovering From Relationship Failure

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Dr. NerdLove reminds guys that even if your relationship fails, YOU are not a failure.

5 Rules To Make Dating Easier On Yourself

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Dr. Nerdlove simplifies the scary process of dating in five simple tips.

5 Times When You Shouldn’t Approach Women

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Yes, it’s scary to approach someone, but sometimes it’s scarier being approached. Dr. Nerdlove gives five examples of when to steer clear of making advances.

How to Deal With Jealousy – A Guide for Guys

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Jealousy isn’t just feeling possessive. Dr. NerdLove investigates the role of self-esteem and masculine identity in how jealous we become.

Building Attraction: What Matters More – Looks or Personality?

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Yes, there’s actually science in the debate about whether personality or looks matter more. Dr. NerdLove explains.

The “Problem” with Male Virginity

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Dr. NerdLove talks about the problems with the way we think about male virginity…and how to fix our toxic thinking.

What Can One Man’s Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships?

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Having an open relationship isn’t as simple as it may seem… Dr. NerdLove breaks down one man’s mistake to help us all learn.

The Surprising Need For Male Intimacy

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Harris O’Malley explains the ways in which real, true friends can not only make you happier, but can greatly improve your health.