Roger Durham embraces the ambiguity, tension, diversity of thought and juxtaposition of words like “good” and “porn” in the discussions here.
Are There Good Guys in Porn? An Interview With Porn Star James Deen
July 25, 2011 By 104 Comments
The porn star discusses misogyny, sex, gender rights, and sex.
Five Rules for Happier Hunting in the World of Online Dating
July 18, 2011 By 15 Comments
They might not help you meet your soulmate, but these five rules certainly won’t make your online dating experience any worse.
Is Porn a Relationship Dealbreaker? Depends on Whom You Ask
July 12, 2011 By 66 Comments
Do I care if my partner watches pornography? The short answer is no. The long answer is no, but.
Who Pays?
July 2, 2011 By 77 Comments
Two of our regular columnists debate a perennial controversy: should the man pay on the first date?
Splitting the Check: Yes, Please!
June 27, 2011 By 48 Comments
There’s no reason (except for convention) that men should pay for women on a first date. And for me, convention is not enough.
Remember When Courting Happened Face-to-Face?
June 20, 2011 By 30 Comments
Call me old-fashioned (you will), but I think there’s value in awkwardness. So forget Twitter and Gchat and just talk to me.
How Not to Respond When Your Partner Doesn’t Orgasm
May 26, 2011 By 25 Comments
When either partner doesn’t orgasm, it’s up to both to define and achieve mutual satisfaction.
Does Size Matter?
May 10, 2011 By 54 Comments
When it comes to schlong specs, is there a golden window? Emily Heist Moss asks a slew of women (and men) what matters most to them.
Talking to Your Daughter About Beauty
February 23, 2011 By 91 Comments
“I still remember the names of two girls my father identified as pretty in a fifth-grade class picture.”
Vocalyze
“I spent years in confusion that led me to ask awkward even wholly inappropriate questions at the wrong moments…”
This is a comment by James on the post “What Happens When We Don’t Teach Our Boys About Sex”.