3 Internal Voices That Speak to Men

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When thoughts tell me to “be calm and breathe”, when my emotionally suppressed little boy cries in pain, and when the voice of spirit nudges me towards leaving a relationship.

The Simple Message That Brought a Middle School Class to Tears

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Former pro wrestler turned anti-bullying crusader Marc Mero puts to rest once and for all the idea that men don’t have emotions.

6 Ways ‘Tough Guys’ Are Actually Weak

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Thomas Fiffer redefines strength by finding the weakness in “tough guy” masculinity.

The Eyes Have it: Changing Kids’ Minds About Bad Behaviour

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Why do some children seem angry all the time, or act as if they just don’t care about the feelings of others?

Relating to ‘My Own Man’ – a New Film About What it Means to Be a Man

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After watching a trailer for the documentary “My Own Man”, Doug Zeigler shares how much he can relate to the star’s fears about manhood and fatherhood.

Is The World Really Ready For Emotional Men?

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Jordan Gray says that the world is becoming increasingly open to a new definition of what it means to be a man. The biggest difference? How we treat men’s emotionality.

3 Ways to Spot a Toxic Partner

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To spare you the suffering he’s known personally, Thomas Fiffer offers 3 ways to identify poisonous partners who can wreak havoc with your life.

Can Being Selfish Make You a Better Partner?

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Thomas Fiffer (selfishly) believes that looking out for #1 makes you a better mate.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words: 12 Ways Men Show Their Love

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Just because a guy doesn’t say what he feels out loud doesn’t mean the love isn’t there. James Michael Sama on how to see it.

Is Your Partner Giving You Enough?

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Thomas Fiffer poses the one question that just might save your next relationship.

3 Ways Being Nice Will Hurt Your Relationship

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Thomas Fiffer reveals 3 ways being nice is the worst thing you can do to your partner.

Why Positivity Doesn’t Always Mean Success

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It’s ok. You can cry it out.

3 Reasons Making Sex Conditional Will Ruin Your Relationship

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Thomas Fiffer explains that making sex a reward for a man’s good behavior not only cheapens the experience but also devalues the relationship.

If Whoever Says ‘I Love You’ First Loses, You Shouldn’t Want To Win

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Why is saying “I love you” so scary?

7 Reasons Why Fighting Is Good For Your Relationship

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How can fighting be good for anything? Steven Lake explores how this works in relationship.

Performing Masculinity and Grief: a Death of My Own

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Randall Horton reflects on his own experiences with grief, and wonders why being a man is to be sentenced to a life bereft of emotional support?