When Men Use Sex For Intimacy

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Are emotions and sex so different forms of expression? Jonathan Cadet discusses.

Learnings from an Emotional Abuser to the World

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Alejandro Flores was an insulting and emotionally abusive partner to the person he most loved. He reflects back on the darkness of those times, and on the light ahead.

#NoFeelings: Why it’s Easier to Ignore Love Than Deal With it

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It’s much easier to just shun a beautiful notion such as love, than to accept our own faults and build the courage to give it another go.

Boys Will Be Boys Will Be Broken

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I am a boy.

Let Him Cry

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Adam Dyer recalls feeling trapped as an angry young teenager. And as a man, having to bargain with society to let him express his emotions.

10 Things I Learned At Summer Camp

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There’s more to summer camp than s’mores and Capture the Flag: C.F. O’Rourke lists the ways summer camp made him into the man he is today.

Should Men Feel All The Feelings?

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Dillan DiGiovanni thinks men shouldn’t avoid difficult feelings when they come up.

The Father of a Thousand Faces

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In which Mark Greene puts himself under the parental microscope, and finds more than one Mark Greene.

How To Teach a Man or a Boy

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Among the most harmful things we do to men and boys is leave them to their own devices.

“Difficulties can be managed by two people who care for one another”

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What Men Are Saying When They Talk About Intimacy

You Should Have Given It Time: An Open Letter to Elliot Rodger

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Darrell Milton writes to Elliot Rodger about, among other things, why being a 22-year-old virgin is not a big deal.

You Don’t Need to Feel Ashamed

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Survivors of sexual abuse can’t simply flip the shame button to the off position. If only it were that easy…

Dear Ally, Thank You For Giving This Man Permission to Cry

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You gave us, the men in your life, the permission to cry. And we needed it. As a matter of fact, we still need it.

For Crying Out Loud, Can We Please Stop Calling Them Highly Sensitive Men?

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Mark Greene asks, how is it that empathic men have been collectively tagged as “easily hurt” or “delicately aware?” Who made that decision?

Dear ‘Dear Fatty’ Writer: Where You See Fat, I See Armor

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With this article Alanna Fero is as publicly vulnerable as she’s ever been. The only thing scarier? Being thin.

The Secret Life of Women: How Men Can Finally Understand Female Emotions

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Lion Goodman discovers the key to understanding how women communicate and how men can speak their language.