20 Minutes Really is a Lifetime for Survivors of Sexual Assault

Let’s talk about rape culture—and second chances.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

The way many geeks conduct themselves not only reinforces all the negative stereotypes about geeks but it also chases women away.

A Thin Line Between Love and Hate: Marriage to Divorce

Perhaps I should’ve let her have a touch of my anger, but I didn’t. Maybe silence was more passive aggressive. Or was it aggressive aggressive?

Why Angry White Men are so Angry

Instead of ignoring the anger, put it to a positive use.

Kids: The Trickiest of Treats

Arianna Jeret shares a Halloween tale of delayed gratification for children & parents.

Can Narcissists Be Cured?

Ross Rosenberg explains why narcissists act superior and entitled and answers the question of whether they can change.

Me? Entitled? You Must Be Talking About Somebody Else

Jenny Kanevsky takes a hard look at her behavior and realizes the opposite of entitlement is respect.

No Elegies for Porn Stars

Dean Kostos’s newest book, This is Not a Skyscraper, contains many gems. This reflection on a porn watcher’s sense of entitlement to the attention of a neighborhood porn star–“earned by years of yearning”–is one such standout.

You Are Not Entitled to be Happy

If you think that happiness is something that you are entitled to, or something the world just owes you, then you are absolutely kidding yourself.

Promiscuity Without Entitlement, for Men

Angelus Morningstar explains how men can enjoy being promiscuous without having to resort to pick-up tactics and other behaviors that can demean their sexual partners.

Defending Women Doesn’t Make You Less of a Man

James Michael Sama reminds us we’ve evolved and says it’s about time we started acting human.

Empathy Can Bring Light to the Internet’s Darkest Places

Remember, there is another human being on the other side of the page writing what we read.

Enabling Princesses: When Being a Good Daddy Goes Too Far

David Guba looks at a recent news story about an American fathering “claiming” a kingdom in Africa to make his daughter a princess and considers what lessons the father might be teaching his young heiress.

Anger and the Superior Man – Is it about Gender or Personal Inadequacy?

Graham Phoenix looks at the anger surrounding the recent shooting in the US, and explains how it all relates to an expression of personal inadequacy.

My Son Got Arrested But It’s Not His Fault

Parents mean well when they call professors to offer excuses, but they end up revealing more than they intend.

The Myth and False Lesson of Independence

Why are we afraid of teaching young people how they relate to the network of human interaction? Why do we value our independence over our dependability?