The Big Gay Choice


We don’t choose who we’re attracted do. But we do choose what we do with that attraction.

What Does “Ex-Gay” Really Mean?


The term “ex-gay” has become a political missile from right wing politics. What are they trying to say?

Former Conservative Insider Speaks on State Proposed Bans of Reparative Therapy for Minors


As the former policy analyst for Family Research Council, Yvette Schneider shares her perspective on religious freedoms and reparative therapy.



We welcome President Obama’s statement and stand with him in opposition to reparative therapy for minors, and call on everyone, regardless of political affiliation, to stand with us and put an end, once and for all, to this practice.

Can You Love the Sinner and Hate the Sin?


A pithy Christian statement creates walls with the LGBT community and loves no one.

Why this LGBT Advocate Supports TLC’s “My Husband’s Not Gay.”

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It’s time we had an honest discussion about sexual orientation and religion.

Gays, Parenting, and Religion, a 2014 Remix


In case you missed it, check out some of the interesting stories worth reading, or re-reading, from 2014.

I’m a Straight Woman Who Married a Gay Man (Her Side of the Story)


When religion makes a promise reality can’t keep.

I’m a Gay Man Who Married a Straight Woman


When religion makes a promise reality can’t keep.

Why are We Still Trying to “Fix” Gays?

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Decades of trying make gay men straight have proven to do to more harm than good. So why have only two states outlawed reparative therapy?

Ex-Gay Advocate Group PFOX Claims Conversion Therapy Would Save Gay Men From AIDS

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Christopher Doyle and his ex-gay advocacy group PFOX insist conversion therapy would help “save gay men from AIDS and suicide.”

Biting Bad Apples: The Truth About the “Ex-Gay” Movement


The conversion therapy business may be more about making money than setting you straight.

Where Are the Gays Who Stand Up for Gays?

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Donald D’Haene wants to know: Where are the fearless members of the LGBTQ community?

Christian Exorcism Leads to Gay Teen’s Suicide

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“Love the sinner, hate the sin” is a cop out, says Christian Piatt. On the courage to love our gay neighbors.

Book Review: Seeking the Straight and Narrow

Recently, thanks to the fabulous Clarisse Thorn, the University of Chicago Press has sent me a whole bunch of books, which I shall now proceed to review! (I assume that all this is the University of Chicago’s attempt to apologize for rejecting both me and my sister. Bastards.) So if you do not want to […]