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Is Bra-Snapping The Beginning Of Domestic Abuse?

February 21, 2012 By Joanna Schroeder 14 Comments

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Joanna Schroeder explains that little boys aren’t the only ones who tease because they like someone.

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: abuse, children, domestic abuse, facebook, feminism, flirting, Good Feed Blog, Joanna Schroeder, parenting, Twitter, Views From The Couch

I’d Suck at Being a Teen Today

February 19, 2012 By Jim Higley 4 Comments

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“A teenage me would be only a glimmer when compared to most kids today.”

Filed Under: Bobblehead Dad, dadsgood, DadsGood Featured Content, new dads Tagged With: communication, facebook, father, generation, iPod, son, teenager

20 Cliches On Lent And Earthly Attachment

February 19, 2012 By Ron Cowie Leave a Comment

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I check Facebook like I pick scabs.

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: cliches, Elijah, facebook, God, Lent, lists, Marines, NRA, religion, Ron Cowie

“I can understand the visceral ‘Hell, yeah!’ reaction to this guy’s video”

February 11, 2012 By the Editors 1 Comment

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This comment was by Kier in response to “Dad Uses 45 to Shoot Daughter’s Laptop over Facebook”

Filed Under: Comment of the Day Tagged With: dad, die hard, facebook, gun, hell yeah, laptop shooting, parenting, viral video, YouTube

A Reader Responds to Father Shooting Daughter’s Laptop

February 11, 2012 By the Editors 70 Comments

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Here are some answers to my questions. What do you think?

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: dad with gun, facebook, fatherhood

Dad Uses 45 to Shoot Daughter’s Laptop over Facebook

February 11, 2012 By Tom Matlack 59 Comments

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What ever happened to discipline in the home? And is this guy insane or a hero?

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: 45, facebook, fatherhood, gun, YouTube

Why I Reported Facebook to the FBI

February 6, 2012 By Raymond Bechard 8 Comments

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Why sell your wares on a street corner, when you can actively cold call prospective buyers of sexual services on a site like Facebook?

Filed Under: Ethics & Values, Featured Content Tagged With: Adult Friend Finder, Backpage, child pornography, Cragslist, Eros, facebook, Fling, IPO, SEC, sex trafficking, Sudhir Venkatesh, The Erotic Review, tugging

Another Week in Review

February 3, 2012 By Tom Matlack 1 Comment

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Facebook, Florida, Women’s Boxing, My Man Crush, Man Buns, Bathroom Rituals, Falling in Love, Sexual Violence and, of course, Porn

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: Andrew Sullivan, facebook, Huffington post, James Franco, mark zuckerberg, Mitt Romney

A Week in Review

January 27, 2012 By Tom Matlack 2 Comments

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A weekly summary of key events in no particular order with no attempt to be fair, politically correct, or remotely thoughtful.

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog Tagged With: American Idol, American Sniper, Apple, Blind Side, Blue Bloods, Donny Wahlberg, facebook, George Soros, Money Ball, New Kids on the Block, Newt Gingrich, Obama, Oscar's, Steven Tyler, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, The Good Wife, Tim Cook

I Was True to My Girlfriend and She Dumped Me Anyway

January 19, 2012 By She Said He Said 9 Comments

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A man wonders if he should de-friend his ex-girlfriend in order to spare her feelings.

Filed Under: Sex & Relationships Tagged With: break up, dating, facebook, jealousy, sex & relationships, She Said He Said

The Reality of Facebook

January 3, 2012 By Marianne Cassidy 12 Comments

Marianne Cassidy didn’t grow up with online communities. She grew up in them.

Filed Under: Ethics & Values, Featured Content Tagged With: Bebo, Community, Elfwood, facebook, internet, LiveJournal

The Fantasy of Facebook

December 19, 2011 By Steven Axelrod 4 Comments

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In Steven Axelrod’s experience, not much good can come from logging onto Facebook.

Filed Under: Advice & Confessions, Featured Content Tagged With: facebook, friends, George Lucas, internet, Martin Scorcese, past, yearbook

Dear John: ‘I Do’ to ‘I Did’

December 15, 2011 By John Simpson, GoLocalProv.com 10 Comments

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Can’t my sister see she and her husband have to stay together for their kids? Why is my husband obsessed with teaching our son to fight? Is posting our arguments on Facebook worth breaking up over?

Filed Under: Advice & Confessions Tagged With: bullying, childhood development, conflict, dear john, disrespect, Divorce, facebook, John Simpson, marriage trouble, Resolution, self defense, violence

When Is It OK to Tell Rape Jokes?

December 6, 2011 By AlterNet 106 Comments

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Can rape jokes provoke awareness, Julianne Escobedo Shepherd asks, or are they a line that should never be breached?

Filed Under: Featured Content, Gender & Sexuality Tagged With: alternet, facebook, George Carlin, Megan Carpentier, rape, rape culture, Rape Jokes, Richard Pryor, Sarah Silverman

Trending Now: #Social Media and Being a #Man: Is it Good or Bad?

November 5, 2011 By SPSMM Leave a Comment

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Maneet Bhatia wants us to use social media as an extension of ourselves, not a definition.

Filed Under: Advice & Confessions, Social Media and Men Tagged With: facebook, four square, Maneet Bhatia, masculinity, men, social media, Twitter

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Second Degree Murder For Lacrosse Player?

Jamie Reidy is shocked by the jury’s decision to convict lacrosse player George Huguely V only of second degree murder in the slaying of his former girlfriend, Yeardley Love.

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Get Walmart Out Of Your Kitchen: A Reason To Learn To Cook

Food blogger Justin Cascio wants men to eat better, and the first step is in learning to cook.

Say Good-bye to “That’s So Gay”: On the Decline of Homophobia

Mark McCormack: “We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”

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Why Settle for Less?

Jamie Reidy encourages single twentysomethings to hold out for Ms. Right, not settle for Ms. Not Too Bad

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10 Reasons Men Love Saint-orum

Men are leading Rick Santorum’s mad charge for the White House. Tom Matlack wants to know why.

Could A Club Drug Offer ‘Almost Immediate’ Relief From Depression?

NPR reports on the use of Ketamine to treat acute depression.

Comment of the Day

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“When I was in a men’s group in 1972, I distinctly remember feeling edgy when we would hug.”

“My son and daughter keep reminding me that things are changing.” The times they are a changin’ (comment and Marco Magnani video cover of Bob Dylan song.)

“Want to scare the crap out of the politicians in Washington? Figure out what we all agree on”

“This issue of how to reduce the reactivity on our political discourse is central to my thinking of late.”

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“With non-Western cultures, you really have to humble yourself and drop a western centric view to at least understand them.”

This comment was from Spidaman3 on the post Headscarves and Men Holding Hands: Coming Out as a Cultural Relativist

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