Feeling My Way Toward A Better Life

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For some people, emotional maturity may occur faster than others. Joe Rutland ponders the question of whether emotions and feelings really do matter in life.

5 Reasons Why Friendly Advice Is Sometimes Better Than Following Your Own

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Ever wonder why it’s so easy to give advice to others, but not so much to yourself? Sanah Faroke divulges her ideas behind why this is true.

We’re All Emotional: Why Guys Need To Be Less Hesitant To Show Their Feelings

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The pressure for men to conform a tough, unemotional man can be a strong force in our society. But it’s very unhealthy. Dav Giuliano tells us why.

Hope is not the Poor Cousin of Faith

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Hope is the strangest thing. And at the same time, it is so familiar to us all. How can something be so strange and so familiar?

Landscapes of Tears Men Cannot Cry

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Have you ever seen a man cry? How often?

#NoFeelings: Why it’s Easier to Ignore Love Than Deal With it

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It’s much easier to just shun a beautiful notion such as love, than to accept our own faults and build the courage to give it another go.

How We Are All Responsible For Making ‘I Love You’ Completely Meaningless

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P-Hud (Paul Hudson) is back. And he’s taking Gen Y to task in this piece, for killing the meaning and power of the words ‘I love you’.

Insights From Women: What Men Need to Know

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Orin J. Hahn shows why the best way to understand women is to begin communicating.

“Shouldn’t a Gentleman be Primarily Concerned with Doing the Right Thing?”

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Return of the Gentleman

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Bettina Goodwin rethinks the the word gentleman, laying out 10 defining characteristics of what that means to the modern man.

Conflict? Don’t Take It Personally

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In living in a world with 6.75 billion other human beings, we run up against each other all the time. Theresa Byrne wants you not to take things so personally.

Six Tips For Feeling, Not Fixing

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Theresa Byrne says that by avoiding or resisting something, we give more power to it.

How To Love Like You Did When It Was New

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Mark A. Michaels & Patricia Johnson on how Love is profound interest.

“When a guy finds a safe place to talk without judgment, the floodgates open.”

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Great article, Aaron. I LOVE the last two sentences. As we’ve talked about, with many men it takes a gut wrenching, 2×4 club to the stomach sort of epiphany to want to talk. When my clients reach this point of pain, hunger, or fear…they finally call. When a guy finds a safe place to talk without judgment, the flood gates open. Sometimes it’s way too late. Even then it doesn’t matter. He needs to work on being better at his NEXT relationship.
Then he has to decide if he actually going to DO anything different. If nothing changes – nothing changes.
Title: When a guy finds a safe place to talk without judgment, the floodgates open.

On Being a Man

Sometimes we are alone.

Because sometimes it’s scary being a man.

We’re Men. We Don’t Talk About Our Feelings.

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Aaron Anderson describes how overcoming the stereotype of the silent stoic could help men take responsibility for their relationships.