We Share Everything

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When kids come into the picture and time is scarce each parent does what is easiest, so family life will often force you into your gender role by default.

The Ick Factor: Who Does the Dirty Work?

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Steven Lake examines how we define the sh*t jobs around the house and who does the clean up.

‘Us’ — A Masculine & Feminine Narrative

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Thomas Bowman has creative an 18 part narrative sculpture about the desire for a better balance between masculine and feminine values. What do you think?

How to Be With Your Partner When She Pushes You Away (in 2 Steps)

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Christian Pedersen describes two simple steps that separate you from connecting with a partner who is distancing herself.

Mornings with Old Lovers

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Gloria Hayes wants you to know that there is more than one way to make love.

Time to Reflect: Inner Work on Purim

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Jacob Max Winkler offers this contemplative piece, inviting you to see where you might fit in the story of Purim. How might you grow by considering these things this weekend?

What is Your Love Energy Really Attracting?

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Confused about whether you should be a nice guy or a macho man? The answer is YES.

Chris Christie is Too Tough for Today’s “Feminized Atmosphere”?

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It took a few days for Fox News to circle the focus groups on the Chris Christie political apocalypse and finally come up with what polls well with their viewership.

The Dream of an Inclusive Masculinity

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Jackson Bliss grew up in a world of fixed and simplistic gender roles. Only recently has he understood how complex masculinity truly is.

Rethinking Masculinity: Is Masculinity (As We Know It) In Crisis?

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Sophie Moss examines the evolution of gender norms.

Be a Better Man by Being Ah-Mused.

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Lawrence Grodecki claims there is a simple way for each of us to be a little greater.

Switcheroo: A Confrontational Gender-Bending Experiment

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Hana Pesut’s Switcheroo photos expose how gender and identity are defined by the clothing we choose to wear. Joanna Schroeder and her husband volunteer to participate in the experiment.

It’s Not Our Story – It’s Your Story

Is there room for all of us?

There’s a long history of groups policing other people’s stories, deciding whose is right and wrong. JJ Vincent would like to see that stop.

Check M, F, or Other: 10 Questions about Gender

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JJ Vincent asked an 18-year-old about gender, identity, self-expression, and what defines a man.

She’s A Wonder: Three Men Chat About One Wonder Woman

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Savas Abadsidis and Randy Ham (with a little help from Wonder Woman writer/artist Phil Jimenez) chat about the current Wonder Woman and what makes her different than the Wonder Woman we’ve all come to know and love.

How Narcissism Harms Your Relationships

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How to shut up and listen: Lion Goodman’s advice on how to improve our relationships by becoming more empathetic and less self-centered.